NobleEagle Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 (edited) ...but I need help Hello. I'm a sixteen year old boy who has recently become a victim of the end of a relationship that lasted just under a year. She broke up with me, but I am not sure why, because she obviously lied. We both gladly agreed to be friends, after she ended it. Ever since then, I have wanted to get back together with her, and I actually thought about it a lot. I don't want her back because I'm lonely or desperate; I'm not. I really loved her, and we had great relationship. We just had a problem with talking about stuff about each other that bothered the other and etc. Well, here is the situation. It ended a little more than a month ago. We didn't talk for a week or so, and this year, and we only have one class together. I really didn't show any break down mentally or physically in front of her, because I tried to not let it affect my attitude towards my friends. I also didn't push her away or anything and tried to talk to her after a while. Lately, she has been acting normal again and seems to be more comfortable talking with me again. She is very shy when it comes to presenting her emotions. I recently asked her for a hug when I was walking with her towards her bus one afternoon for the first time since we broke up (complete coincidence I was talking to my friends outside a chemistry lab when science club ended and she came out), and she said yes. The weird thing is is that she gave me a hug, and whether it was through my own imagination, she hugged me the same or more than when we were dating. She then stopped me as a started to turn around to walk to my car, and told me that she was having a bad day but she was smiling as if I made her feel. I'm a confident guy, but I've always been kind of afraid of being rejected. I was wondering what I should do next? It seems like she regrets ending it, but I'm a chicken (not literally). Should I just tell her "I still have feelings for you." and hope she feels the same way, or should I stealthily show her I still love her (and how would I do this exactly?) and hope she does the same? Or what? Thank you so much for your help. If you have any questions about additional information that could help you answer my questions, please ask. Edited December 5, 2010 by NobleEagle
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