Hopeful30 Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 He likes me. I like him. Great chemistry. Very intense sex. He likes to get verbal sometimes. During his verbal "Oh I love it when you do that, I love it" he accidentally let an "I love you" slip out. So basically, "Oh I love it when you do that, I love you, I love it like that." Was this accidental or a subconscious slip? Not hoping for a specific answer. Just curious. I've never done that no matter how good the sex was. Don't know if men function differently, or if it was just a word mixup. Link to post Share on other sites
OrdealByFire Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 For most men, "I love you" translates to "God do I enjoy your vadge." Link to post Share on other sites
elastica Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 He likes me. I like him. Great chemistry. Very intense sex. He likes to get verbal sometimes. During his verbal "Oh I love it when you do that, I love it" he accidentally let an "I love you" slip out. So basically, "Oh I love it when you do that, I love you, I love it like that." Was this accidental or a subconscious slip? Not hoping for a specific answer. Just curious. I've never done that no matter how good the sex was. Don't know if men function differently, or if it was just a word mixup. LOL Hope you can forgive me, but this story is cute. And also, I have been there. Anyway, I am not a man, so I am curious as well... So I used to be in a relationship with this very shy man for about a year, and none of us said the magic words so far. So I decided I am going to tell him I love him because this is how I felt. But I would wait for the right moment. So I was thinking about how/when to say, thinking for days, weeks, a month. I became obsessed with saying it to the extent that when we were together, even during sex, I would remember that I want to tell him. And then, one day it just came out, accidentally during naughty times. Although I did not want to say it then/that way. I felt this urge and I started mumbling. It slipped out accidentally, but it did slip out because I was thinking (too much) about it and was waiting for the right moment to say it. I don't think people would say it, even accidentally, just like that... I think he was probably thinking about it. But let's just hear what men will say. Link to post Share on other sites
BambooLand Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 It doesn't mean anything unless he smokes a cigarette afterwards. Link to post Share on other sites
RovingReporter Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 When a man says "I love you" during sex he's talking to his penis. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hopeful30 Posted December 5, 2010 Author Share Posted December 5, 2010 when a man says "i love you" during sex he's talking to his penis. ....................lol! Link to post Share on other sites
BambooLand Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 When a man says "I love you" during sex he's talking to his penis. Ummm no- he's talking to her V-J J Link to post Share on other sites
alexlakeman Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 It's pillow talk... OMG, I've said I love you in bed so many times, then in the am, I am like "WTF did I say?!!!", lol, sorry .. It has gotten so bad that one time instead of saying I love you during sex, I asked the Ho to marry me; we were married for 15 years.. worse trouble sex has ever gotten me into.. lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hopeful30 Posted December 5, 2010 Author Share Posted December 5, 2010 It's pillow talk... OMG, I've said I love you in bed so many times, then in the am, I am like "WTF did I say?!!!", lol, sorry .. It has gotten so bad that one time instead of saying I love you during sex, I asked the Ho to marry me; we were married for 15 years.. worse trouble sex has ever gotten me into.. lol :S Well it's your fault... you should have told her afterwards "Listen, it was the sex talking, I didn't mean it". Better to have broken her heart then and there rather than after 15 years of marriage. That's not nice lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 6, 2010 Share Posted December 6, 2010 It's pillow talk... OMG, I've said I love you in bed so many times, then in the am, I am like "WTF did I say?!!!", lol, sorry .. It has gotten so bad that one time instead of saying I love you during sex, I asked the Ho to marry me; we were married for 15 years.. worse trouble sex has ever gotten me into.. lol Nice way to talk about the mother of your children. Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted December 6, 2010 Share Posted December 6, 2010 It doesn't mean anything unless he smokes a cigarette afterwards. Truer words were never spoken Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted December 6, 2010 Share Posted December 6, 2010 It's pillow talk... OMG, I've said I love you in bed so many times, then in the am, I am like "WTF did I say?!!!", lol, sorry .. It has gotten so bad that one time instead of saying I love you during sex, I asked the Ho to marry me; we were married for 15 years.. worse trouble sex has ever gotten me into.. lol Okay, this is a "worse case example." I don't think ALL men are like this. Maybe it was a slip of the tongue, maybe he actually meant it. We don't know, only he does. So why don't you ask him? It doesn't have to be a hugely intense conversation, just something like: "Hey, the other night when we were having sex I noticed you said "I love you" was that just a slip of the tongue, or did you mean it?" If you go that route however, you need to be prepared for him to say that it was just a slip. The more important question is: Do you love him? Link to post Share on other sites
refurb Posted December 6, 2010 Share Posted December 6, 2010 I would say no, it doesn't necessarily mean anything. If he says "I love you" AFTER sex, then yeah that means something. RF Link to post Share on other sites
alexlakeman Posted December 7, 2010 Share Posted December 7, 2010 OP, just giving you a hard time, sorry... but in all reality it just depends on the person.. In my case, I say it when we are really into in bed, it just comes out, lol... but I guess at my age, the woman knows when to believe it and when not.. Learn this!!! FORGET THE words, actions speak louder than words... he can say I love you a hundred times, but if he is the biggest d.ick, then what good does it do by him telling you those words? Depends on the person and the age.. The older you get the more serious it is taken.. At my age 45, if I tell a woman I love you after a few dates, she'll think I am some psycho and if she tells me that so soon, I'll run for the hills, lol Link to post Share on other sites
sugarmomma Posted December 7, 2010 Share Posted December 7, 2010 Probably didn't mean it since all the blood rushed from his brain to his dick. :bunny::bunny: How long have you been dating/sexing?? Link to post Share on other sites
Titania22 Posted December 7, 2010 Share Posted December 7, 2010 Depends on the person and the age.. The older you get the more serious it is taken.. At my age 45, if I tell a woman I love you after a few dates, she'll think I am some psycho and if she tells me that so soon, I'll run for the hills, lol So true. So so true. Link to post Share on other sites
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