pad.roc Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Hi all, I broke up with my ex gf about 4 months back. It wasnt really a great relationship and she would always play the hot -cold game, give me silent treatment and get mad at me even if it was her fault. I was happy n relieved to break up with her and it was the best decision I ever took. But today somehow, even after hanging out with my friends in the evening, here I am in the night. Feeling so sad and missing her like crazy. I have been fine for the past 4 months and never felt so sad about the relationship ending. But I want to cry today and I miss her very much. I dont know why... I was hoping posting this would make me feel a little better, it didnt help much. Thanks to anyone who read this
Don_da_Ho Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Bro, you admitted it wasn't a great relationship. You were even relieved. You've gone 4 months that's great!! So she crossed you mind and you're upset. It happens. Bet $ that feeling will only last a day (if that). Soldier on. And go meet some other women. That should help distract you.
xeros Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 What Don said. It'll get easier, don't give up! I'd compare the relationship to a drug. You miss it so badly, but once you get back in it'll make you feel worse again.
Coolsbreeze Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Been almost three months for me and I still miss her every minute of every day. I can't even imagine being with another girl. It pains me greatly that she has moved on so quickly and I haven't. And just seeing happy couples on the street doesn't make things easier either. It brings back painful memories of what I lost and probably will never get back again. However, one good thing was that I am a lot better then I was three months ago. I guess time really does help...
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