xx.Kael.xx Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 I'd much rather be abducted by Jigsaw, & watch my own torture.. than think about what she & her new guy are up to. It's driving me ****ing insane. That new guy, being my now ex friend. How the hell do I deal with this?
Leandro Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 Yea i know what you mean. My ex left me for another guy, so the thought of what the will do does drive me insane sometimes. But you can't let them get to you.
swfc_77 Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 we split up for the first time back in april she got with some one local who i knew of, we weren't friends i'd just not seen the guy for about 10 years. anyway they didn't work and she came back to me, we only lasted 3 months before it crashed and burned again, her not me. i haven't seen that kid for about 10 years, even though he drinks local, lives local. but if he was to walk into my local, even though it was months ago, even though he didn't do anything apart from slag me off to my ex and always compare himself to me, i think i'd bite his nose off. dont go lookin for it mate, but if you was to see him i would be very tempted to give him a slap
Don_da_Ho Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 dont go lookin for it mate, but if you was to see him i would be very tempted to give him a slap WTF? He's asking how to stop thinking about it, not how to handle it. If we're on that subject, why not slap the Ex? It does take two. Sure the guy may have pursued her, but she has to accept. Anyway. Sorry Bro. I have been in that situation. You have to do your best to force your mind not to think about it. I know, it's a living hell. Whenever I thought about my Ex wit her new guy I would force my mind to think about something else.
swfc_77 Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 when this kind of happened to me i just took myself away from it, tell yourself your better off without people like that in your life. and you probably are mate.
jam88 Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 hey mate i feel your pain, this has happened to me when i was younger. i feel the best thing to do is forget the both of them. get a new hobby, start working out and meeting new people. start a new course at college. to stop thinking about them you need to exchange it with thinking about something else or even - not thinking at all. Doing things is the best remedy.. even tho feeling like utter poop at this time stops us from doing stuff the more you get out there and take stuff up the more that stuff can take your mind off thinking so much. 2 bad people should not invade your mind like this. Do more for yourself and make yourself happy. for example playing a sport i realize it stops you from thinking so much because your more focused on winning the game and playing a game of football etc. Good luck Jam
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