Why Are A Lot Of Guys So Wimpy?

[musemaj11]

Relevant to the thread.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps

 

Pay close attention boys.

When a woman says,

 

"I want a man who takes charge."

 

It means,

 

"I want a man who will do the work for me so I dont have to do anything."

 

Very simple. No wonder everything in this world was created by men. Women inherently lack that ambition to go after what they want. They expect things to be handed to them.

 

I wonder how these women would feel if a man wanted them to play the traditional role. These types almost make me appreciate the old school feminists. I am not talking about the manhating ones like my mother but the ones who meant it when they talked about equality.

Thats the new generation of women. They put expectations on men. They demand that guys have to be this or guys have to be that. But you say one thing about what you demand from those women on how they should behave, they will go nuts!

 

Its funny that they complain that men are less dominant these days while for thousands of years women were fighting to stop male dominance over women and in other parts of the world today women are still struggling for the right to say 'No' to a man. Stupid dumb parasites.

Edited December 6, 2010 by musemaj11

[griffinchicken53]

Yea, I like how they say they want the man to take control in the bedroom, but when something slips into the wrong hole, they get all upset and stuff.

 

man this made me laugh real hard.

i grew up with relatives saying i was a sweet guy and basically i'd have any choice of woman. of course i was in for a shock and found out quite the opposite.

i am a bit desperate and i'm afraid of being forogtten. so i probably would try to initiate alot of contact.

to me it does feel like a race. a fierce competition that i'm probably going to lose. i tend to focus on one woman, not talking to a woman on a friday night with a date for the next weekend, then be out saturday night and get another number. i'd see how things went with the first girl. but by this time some other guy would be going out with the saturday night girl.

 

so for me, if a date doesn't work out, it just basically means i'm back to square one and could be months before i get another number, then the same thing could happen. it is a fear of thinking, i might not be in a relationship for 5 years. and only have 3 first dates in that entire time.

[hearttobreak]

man this made me laugh real hard.

i grew up with relatives saying i was a sweet guy and basically i'd have any choice of woman. of course i was in for a shock and found out quite the opposite.

i am a bit desperate and i'm afraid of being forogtten. so i probably would try to initiate alot of contact.

to me it does feel like a race. a fierce competition that i'm probably going to lose. i tend to focus on one woman, not talking to a woman on a friday night with a date for the next weekend, then be out saturday night and get another number. i'd see how things went with the first girl. but by this time some other guy would be going out with the saturday night girl.

 

so for me, if a date doesn't work out, it just basically means i'm back to square one and could be months before i get another number, then the same thing could happen. it is a fear of thinking, i might not be in a relationship for 5 years. and only have 3 first dates in that entire time.

 

 

Nah man, that ain't the way to do it. The last GF experience taught me to not be nice and kind to them. If you do, they will just run over you. Cause they can always say next. I was always the nice and friendly one, but not anymore. Since the break five months or so, I've had five dates with five different women and two offers for hooking up with two other women. While the hooking up happened over the summer, I was still upset so I did not take them up on it; regretfully. You need to play little attention to them, never compliment them, never run after them. If they call, let them leave a message or call them back later. If they text, reply back and hour or two later. Basically, like they are not important to you. Which, they shouldn't be. Live your life, and treat them like a priority 1 status on a 1 to 10 scale. Believe it or not, and it is sad to admit, that is how you get their attention. Don't disrespect them, but don't be gratious to them either. One, chances are they do not deserve it. Two, see # one.

 

This is how the game is played. The guy who treats her well and kind and good gets stepped all over. The guy that uses her and pays little attention to her is the one who bangs her. As screwed up as it is, that is what they want. So, might as well give it to them. The only women that should be held to a high regard in your life are your mother, sister, grand mother, aunt. All others, treat them like they are no big deal. I guarantee you will see a change.

[Mad Max]

Nah man, that ain't the way to do it. The last GF experience taught me to not be nice and kind to them. If you do, they will just run over you. Cause they can always say next. I was always the nice and friendly one, but not anymore. Since the break five months or so, I've had five dates with five different women and two offers for hooking up with two other women. While the hooking up happened over the summer, I was still upset so I did not take them up on it; regretfully. You need to play little attention to them, never compliment them, never run after them. If they call, let them leave a message or call them back later. If they text, reply back and hour or two later. Basically, like they are not important to you. Which, they shouldn't be. Live your life, and treat them like a priority 1 status on a 1 to 10 scale. Believe it or not, and it is sad to admit, that is how you get their attention. Don't disrespect them, but don't be gratious to them either. One, chances are they do not deserve it. Two, see # one.

 

This is how the game is played. The guy who treats her well and kind and good gets stepped all over. The guy that uses her and pays little attention to her is the one who bangs her. As screwed up as it is, that is what they want. So, might as well give it to them. The only women that should be held to a high regard in your life are your mother, sister, grand mother, aunt. All others, treat them like they are no big deal. I guarantee you will see a change.

 

 

The only women you'll attract are the ones with low self-esteem.

[musemaj11]

Nah man, that ain't the way to do it. The last GF experience taught me to not be nice and kind to them. If you do, they will just run over you. Cause they can always say next. I was always the nice and friendly one, but not anymore. Since the break five months or so, I've had five dates with five different women and two offers for hooking up with two other women. While the hooking up happened over the summer, I was still upset so I did not take them up on it; regretfully. You need to play little attention to them, never compliment them, never run after them. If they call, let them leave a message or call them back later. If they text, reply back and hour or two later. Basically, like they are not important to you. Which, they shouldn't be. Live your life, and treat them like a priority 1 status on a 1 to 10 scale. Believe it or not, and it is sad to admit, that is how you get their attention. Don't disrespect them, but don't be gratious to them either. One, chances are they do not deserve it. Two, see # one.

Yup, I was in denial most of my life about this.

 

I dont condone mistreating women.

 

But never give them special treatment. Never put them on a higher pedestal. Make them feel like they are equal to you, but dont make them feel like they are more than you. Help them carry something if they struggle with it but dont help them carry something if they can do it themselves.

 

Personally I disagree with the typical jerk behavior of trampling over women and taking advantage of them.

 

My new philosophy is meet them halfway. Let them pull their share of the weight.

[hearttobreak]

Yup, I was in denial most of my life about this.

 

I dont condone mistreating women.

 

But never give them special treatment. Never put them on a higher pedestal. Make them feel like they are equal to you, but dont make them feel like they are more than you. Help them carry something if they struggle with it but dont help them carry something if they can do it themselves.

 

Personally I disagree with the typical jerk behavior of trampling over women and taking advantage of them.

 

My new philosophy is meet them halfway. Let them pull their share of the weight.

 

Never said to mistreat them. That's not good, nor would I condone that. Just more like a 60/40 relationship. 60 going to the male. If you call lawyers teachers and doctors low self-esteem, then that's your call. However, none of them, to me, seem like they have low self esteem.

[Titania22]

It all starts with the mom.

 

I grew up with my mother brainwashing to be the ultimate gentleman (slave?). It was so much so that I was afraid of girls because I thought I was less than them.

 

Only in the past two years I have slowly started to learn that women are actually less than me and there is really no reason why I should be afraid of them. I had been a fool all this time.

 

 

 

You're kidding right!

[musemaj11]

You're kidding right!

As of now, I really do think women are less than me.

 

However, that doesnt mean I would disrespect and mistreat them.

[sally4sara]

As of now, I really do think women are less than me.

 

However, that doesnt mean I would disrespect and mistreat them.

 

There are people who are in some way "less" than me. As well people who see me as "less" than they are.

 

That you distinguish those you see as "less" to be women, well....you got a bigger problem to deal with on your plate - inner turmoil. It can't be doing much for your personal state of mind to be this contemptuous.

Its bad enough to have to deal with people who are consumed with assessing all the people they are so much better than. Twice as bad when they are a bigot about it. And singling out one group among others as your target is the mindset of a bigot.

 

I hope you're just currently going though a rough patch and you find yourself in a lighter mood one day.

[musemaj11]

There are people who are in some way "less" than me. As well people who see me as "less" than they are.

 

That you distinguish those you see as "less" to be women, well....you got a bigger problem to deal with on your plate - inner turmoil. It can't be doing much for your personal state of mind to be this contemptuous.

Its bad enough to have to deal with people who are consumed with assessing all the people they are so much better than. Twice as bad when they are a bigot about it. And singling out one group among others as your target is the mindset of a bigot.

 

I hope you're just currently going though a rough patch and you find yourself in a lighter mood one day.

When I observe the world around me, its really hard not to see the fact that Women are indeed less than Men. Everything in this world has 'Man' written all over it.

 

But as I said, I do not condone mistreatment toward women as I do not condone mistreatment toward children.

 

It is just sad that a lot of men especially in America do not realize how more valuable they are.

 

In my original country where I grew up in, there is a region where tradition dictates that the woman's family has to propose to the man's family for marriage and they have to actually offer dowry whose value must take into consideration the man's level of education and status. This is because these people realize that it is the man who will ensure the survival of the family for the rest of his life, not the woman who is just going to be a dependent. Thus a man is more valuable not the other way around.

 

I believe these people got it right and the rest of the world got it wrong ...

Edited December 8, 2010 by musemaj11

[Titania22]

When I observe the world around me, its really hard not to see the fact that Women are indeed less than Men. Everything in this world has 'Man' written all over it.

 

...

 

There is much that I could say to this, but to be brief I will just say.

 

This is because Men do and Women be. If you only value the material, the bricks and mortar of this world, then sure women look like a waste of space. But please consider what it would be like to like in a world where there are only men.

[musemaj11]

There is much that I could say to this, but to be brief I will just say.

 

This is because Men do and Women be. If you only value the material, the bricks and mortar of this world, then sure women look like a waste of space. But please consider what it would be like to like in a world where there are only men.

 

Marge: [about a gay man] Homer, he prefers the company of men.

Homer: Who doesn't?

 

:p:p

[nsearch4u]

The reason for this is, fear. For whatever reason there an sooooo many people that have a fear of being alone. They just cannot function without being in a relationship of some sort. Many people are relationship junkies. Its like meth to them.

 

They really dont even know themselves. They have never spent time with themselves, by themselves, doing things by themselves. Some people just cant live without having someone in their lives, as toxic as it may be. They just yearn for it and must have it. Without ever really knowing who they, themselves, are at all.

 

perfect.......the biggest thing i ever learned was the difference between being "alone" and being "lonely".....I always feared alone because it registered as "lonely" to me. I've since found that alone is quite enjoyable as well as necessary....

[sumdude]

When I observe the world around me, its really hard not to see the fact that Women are indeed less than Men. Everything in this world has 'Man' written all over it.

 

But as I said, I do not condone mistreatment toward women as I do not condone mistreatment toward children.

 

It is just sad that a lot of men especially in America do not realize how more valuable they are.

 

In my original country where I grew up in, there is a region where tradition dictates that the woman's family has to propose to the man's family for marriage and they have to actually offer dowry whose value must take into consideration the man's level of education and status. This is because these people realize that it is the man who will ensure the survival of the family for the rest of his life, not the woman who is just going to be a dependent. Thus a man is more valuable not the other way around.

 

I believe these people got it right and the rest of the world got it wrong ...

 

I that is what you truly believe perhaps you should move there, find a wife and collect your dowry.

[musemaj11]

I that is what you truly believe perhaps you should move there, find a wife and collect your dowry.

You wanna pay for my and my future bride's tickets then?

[sumdude]

You wanna pay for my and my future bride's tickets then?

 

Isn't that part of the dowry?

[musemaj11]

Isn't that part of the dowry?

No, so are you gonna pay for me or not?

[sumdude]

No, so are you gonna pay for me or not?

 

Nope, why don't you ask ticojett the shill?

[musemaj11]

Nope, why don't you ask ticojett the shill?

Ya well Tico wasnt the one telling me to go to a place oceans away.