sashan Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 :)Hey. there is this guy i've known like for a year . He was in a relationship with a girl i know for almost 2 year. They broke up in summer , but before we always used to talk and he used to ask me out but i always ignored it . He's like the perfect type for me and he got everythng i wish in a guy , i think it's the same situation for him . But the problem is he's a big player , he loved this girl once and that's it. 3 months ago , we've been on our first date. I am usually the kind of girl who's hard to get , but i don't know why we kissed from the first time, and dated for like 3 weeks . After this i saw him with other girls, and i stoped seing him but we stayed really close friends.Something was telling me before that is wasnt over between us before. A month ago , he came and apologize and told me that he regrets it and wtvr. I told him it was too late hunny .We conetinued to go out by group and we were always both there and he tried flirting with me but i always stoped him . 3 weeks ago i decided to give him another chance bcz i rly wanted to so we went on a date , and of course we kissed and were were like dating for 2 weeks. a week ago , we begun a relationship officialy , and i was sure that he started to love me or at least attachng to me .I knew that from some of his bestfrnds that are also mine . anyways now im not feeling well with him , im always scared , yest he was in a party and some people told me he stayed from a girl to another , and like i always hear wht people are sayin , i dnt know wht im doin i just know that everthngs wrong. I dont want him to hurt me , my friends are teeling me he's being full of his self in frnt f his friends just to show everybody that couldnt get me , that he won . I want to control him , not in a bad way and being bad , but like show him that im better than others and he can loose me in anymoment. any idea?
Els Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 You don't. 'Player' is the antithesis of 'relationship'.
musemaj11 Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 These kinda girls need to get smacked in the head to put some sense into them.
Seamless74 Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 not just girls bro there was a male poster on here the other day asking how to have a relationship with a party girl so its definately both sides..
musemaj11 Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 not just girls bro there was a male poster on here the other day asking how to have a relationship with a party girl so its definately both sides.. Then smack him too. LOL
MJ2 Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 It would be a total waste of energy. Besides, it's impossible to fix other peoples character flaws.
Author sashan Posted December 6, 2010 Author Posted December 6, 2010 These kinda girls need to get smacked in the head to put some sense into them. which kind do u mean ?
SmileFace Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 So you are trying to have a relationship with a guy who you continue to label a "player"? I am not saying people can't change-- hopefully this guy does . Just as I told my bestfriend if you are going to continue to think of a person a a certain way -- that is the only way they would be to you. Good luck with your relationship. Stop trying to find a hidden answer. Just be you and enjoy your relationship.
sally4sara Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 :)Hey. there is this guy i've known like for a year . He was in a relationship with a girl i know for almost 2 year. They broke up in summer , but before we always used to talk and he used to ask me out but i always ignored it . He's like the perfect type for me and he got everythng i wish in a guy Can you share what makes him so perfect and what it is he has that is everything you could wish for in a partner? I'm failing to see how lacking loyalty or the ability to treat others with respect, being full of himself are great qualities that one should value in choosing a mate. Perhaps you could help me understand what it is that makes you think so highly of this guy? , i think it's the same situation for him . But the problem is he's a big player , he loved this girl once and that's it. 3 months ago , we've been on our first date. I am usually the kind of girl who's hard to get , but i don't know why we kissed from the first time, and dated for like 3 weeks . After this i saw him with other girls, and i stoped seing him but we stayed really close friends.Something was telling me before that is wasnt over between us before. A month ago , he came and apologize and told me that he regrets it and wtvr. I told him it was too late hunny .We conetinued to go out by group and we were always both there and he tried flirting with me but i always stoped him . 3 weeks ago i decided to give him another chance bcz i rly wanted to so we went on a date , and of course we kissed and were were like dating for 2 weeks. a week ago , we begun a relationship officialy , and i was sure that he started to love me or at least attachng to me .I knew that from some of his bestfrnds that are also mine . anyways now im not feeling well with him , im always scared , yest he was in a party and some people told me he stayed from a girl to another , and like i always hear wht people are sayin , i dnt know wht im doin i just know that everthngs wrong. I dont want him to hurt me , my friends are teeling me he's being full of his self in frnt f his friends just to show everybody that couldnt get me , that he won . I want to control him , not in a bad way and being bad , but like show him that im better than others and he can loose me in anymoment. any idea? Personally, this guy sounds like an awful choice and likely to give you an STD. Why is this good enough for you? You'd do yourself better by dropping him, reading some books, gaining some life experience and learning new skills in the effort to improve the person YOU are. Maybe then you'd find enough reasons to value yourself too much to involve yourself with the waste of time this guy seems to want to be.
Author sashan Posted December 19, 2010 Author Posted December 19, 2010 Can you share what makes him so perfect and what it is he has that is everything you could wish for in a partner? I'm failing to see how lacking loyalty or the ability to treat others with respect, being full of himself are great qualities that one should value in choosing a mate. Perhaps you could help me understand what it is that makes you think so highly of this guy? Personally, this guy sounds like an awful choice and likely to give you an STD. Why is this good enough for you? You'd do yourself better by dropping him, reading some books, gaining some life experience and learning new skills in the effort to improve the person YOU are. Maybe then you'd find enough reasons to value yourself too much to involve yourself with the waste of time this guy seems to want to be. well he's beautiful . he's very nice with a baby heart. He'll do anything for the one that he loves. like he used to do to his ex ( sleeping outside her house for 2 days, skipping school everyday just to make her happy if she was sick or whtvr) , he has like a method in talkin to make you fall for him. anws me and him just broke up , i dont think this matters anymore. Players never change , they will all gonna break your heart
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