am i being friendzoned?

[jam88]

Hi guys me and my gf split up today or atleast were not officially together now.

I just want your verdict on this and to see if shes worth going out with on wednesday.

 

Okay me and my ex gf have been arguing alot recently (if you want me to post the last arguement i can).. half of these arguements imo were uncalled for and i believe the last one was her fault because she became too defensive and overly angry for no apparent reason.. and recently shes blamed me for stuff which wasnt my fault. Its like someone's pulling her strings and then shes acting it out against me.

 

Anyway on thursday during the arguement which i was simply calm, collected and honest she ended it in a bad mood of: "i dont like how your talking to me, forget it!"

 

so after this one i didnt text her back as i thought well shes more interested in arguing than talking.

friday night comes and she asks "just wondering whether you wanted to go see that gig or not anymore?"

 

We had arranged to go to a gig 3 months prior to it.. we were looking forward to it so i replied "depends; if you want me to go".

 

At this point we were still 'in relationship'.

I had no text back all night.. the reason i replied that question is because i simply felt she only asked me coz someone else asked her if they could go instead. hope u understand me..

 

Next morning i get a text from her saying "did you text me yesterday? my phones been playing up"

i replied "yep i did, i said it depends if you want me to go"

 

As i wrote this and sent it i logged onto facebook and noticed she had gone single.. she must have done it that morning. im thinkin she jumped the gun much..

 

She replied to my last msg; "I kinda bought them tickets for you =/ buts its up to you whether you want to come with me. Dont worry if you dont tho because i understand"

 

I then sent this msg next "i only ask because u may be asking me only coz sum1 else has asked to go with u. checking FB u've chosen to be single too? I wanted to go but there wud be no point if its not me u rly want to go with"

 

then the dreaded text from her:

 

"i think we need a break or something because we keep falling out. We could go as friends then see what happens? its your decision"

 

So i dont know what to make of that last text?

 

Does she wants to be back in the relationship and makeup?

Or is she trying to cheekily friendzone me?

 

If she wanted to work on things would she suddenly go 'single'? then i tell myself if she didnt like me she wouldnt invite me to the gig in 1st place since she bought the tickets.

What do you think i should do? and how to reply to her last txt?

 

 

Thanks for your help guys

Edited December 4, 2010 by jam88
making smaller lol

[carhill]

Relationships don't exist inside a small handheld electronic device.

[jam88]

Relationships don't exist inside a small handheld electronic device.

 

C'mon atleast give a better answer carhill