listen_to_me_please Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 (edited) Here is sequence of events as they occured. Started to Date Nov 06 Arguments started to occur in Sept 07 Broke up in Feb 08 - Discovered she was cheating. March 08 - Break-up dragout for a month, (fighting for power, insulting, hurting one another) - (I think she was trying to make me into a friend and have me accept the fact that she seeing someone else and wanted to continue to work with me) April 1st - I fired her, She sent email telling me i'm a loser, how I have emotional problems, how to never contact her again, that I need to grow up, yada yada yada etc etc NC next 2 years 7 Months Nov 11th 2010 - Received Contact from EX via face book friend request. I hit the delete button and did not respond. Whats my play here? Continue the No contact or send friendly message, something the lines of "Hey XO, I saw your friend add the other day and I must of inadvertently hit the delete button. In any event, its good to know your still alive" In either case, I've moved to a new city and dated a few other people since our split. I barely think about her anymore, actually ever since she sent me that contact I have thought about her less and less. Wow, now that I realize, I haven' thought about her in a few weeks. Do I send her that message or continue acting as if I do not know her and she never existed? ====== BackGround on Her: She had someone when she met me. We started to have sex, she stop talking to that somebody.' Turns out she had an abortation with that somebody and cannot stand the sight of small babies. 8 Months into the relationship, she goes and sleeps with that somebody. 2 Months later, she begins having sex with a new Then after we would have sex, she cries to me ( Why are you so nice to me???!!, I know what I am doing is wrong but I can't help myself) - to which I would reply "Its ok baby, come, lets go to sleep, its ok" - I never understood those words until post-breakup. ======= These are just facts. She was nice and pretty and had a warm buddy and I was at peace with her but she messed up my head for a few years. Overall she was a good person until she bashed in my head with a 2x4 and strung me along all those months. I thought about her throughout the years, checked her facebook once in a while. I guess our lives just went in different paths. And just for a random note, when she did contact me, its like that set me free. Every since then, wow I haven't really thought about her except for when I'm contemplating sending her a message or not. Edited December 4, 2010 by listen_to_me_please
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