DreamInside Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 (edited) Met this guy last week from online after about two weeks of talking. Wonderful first two dates. Third date, he invites me to his house for a dinner he's cooked for me. We began kissing, after a few minutes he pulled away and asked me what I'm looking for...Just fun or something serious. I said serious. He said he is as well and would like for us to exclusive and not date other people, he really likes me, wants to give this a shot. We started kissing again and things became heated. I pulled back and told him I want to move slower and don't want to have sex right away. He was not thrilled and said he's not waiting a month or something. I said I need some more time to get to know him. We dd kiss some more and eventually I went home. Since that time he does not initiate texts or calls, but does answer right away when I contact him. I had dinner at his house again two days later and he greeted me warmly, cuddled with me, I decided to show him that I do plan to make good on my promise and went down on him. I wanted him to know I'm attracted, just need time. He was very sweet and didn't want to finish in my mouth, he actually stopped me and finished him with my hand. After, we kissed cuddled, then I headed home. This morning, I text him good morning, how are you and he responded right away. I text him back saying enjoy the rest of his day. He hasn't tried to make plans with me or anything. I'm just not sure what's going on or what I should be doing. Mostly I'm confused by the exclusive business. Was "exclusive" contingent on the sex or are we free to see others? I'm also concerned that he's losing interest since I've been intiating the contact. Edited December 4, 2010 by DreamInside to shorten
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