gkwolfman84 Posted December 3, 2010 Posted December 3, 2010 (edited) The new co-worker is my ex GF, the girl who I cheated many years ago. We were 18 year-olds at the time (now I'm 25). She caught me cheating on her with the OW (we were laying around, done with the act) and I didn't never even said sorry to her because it was pointless. There was nothing to explain so I left. I was beyong mortified and couldn't stand the look on her face. I never forgot that tearful expression nor her yelling at me saying how could you do this to me. I left and cut off contact with her though, but always wanted to apologize for the damage I caused. Now years later should I finally talk to her and apologize or quit my job? Edited December 3, 2010 by gkwolfman84
meda1 Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 talk to her! im sure she is feeling just as mortified mate, dont talk about your past together unless she brings it up, maybe do something nice for her so she knows your truely sorry like write her a nice friendly letter, sounds silly i know but your asking wether you should leave your job or not so you have everything to lose if you dont act towards making up
Author gkwolfman84 Posted December 10, 2010 Author Posted December 10, 2010 talk to her! im sure she is feeling just as mortified mate, dont talk about your past together unless she brings it up, maybe do something nice for her so she knows your truely sorry like write her a nice friendly letter, sounds silly i know but your asking wether you should leave your job or not so you have everything to lose if you dont act towards making upI already talked to her. She now knows I've always regretted hurting her like that.
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