mortensorchid Posted December 3, 2010 Posted December 3, 2010 I'm in a bit of a state right now. I'm not sure where I stand here. Let me explain ... A few months ago, I started seeing this man. Long story short, I'd known him for a few years, we'd see each other once or twice a year and we never said anything besides "Hi how are you" to each other. We connected last summer at this concert, I figured we were just going to be friends, and we would get together every few weeks for dinner. Then, in October, it changed ... So here we are nearly two months later. I'm taking things as they come, but I'm not sure where I stand here. I asked if I can change my status on Facebook from that of "single" to "in a relationship", and he said sure. I didn't say with who, but I think others who see the photos will determine who it is. We have a lot of the same friends, so it's not a big deal to declare it. He did say to others "We're going out now." We used to see each other a few times a week, now just once a week. He left for Florida for a get away, he didn't say good bye but I decided just to stay out of his way. Sure enough he texted after he got back and said he missed me. So I was happy to see him again a few days later because I was busy. Now, few if any texts or get togethers during the week. Last Saturday, I went to go see his band preform. He was under a lot of stress so I also stayed out of his way for that, not wanting to be the arm candy if he was so busy doing other things. I learned not to be clingy with them. Now, it's Thursday at 9 pm. I have no idea if we are getting together this weekend. Another things, I sent a text saying I might have an out of town guest coming in this weekend. I just talked to him (the guest) and he (yes, he's a HE) is not sure if he is coming or not due to a work situation. He said he'd let me know. I had mentioned this out of town guest possibly coming in many weeks ago when we were first together. Am I being paranoid or reasonable here? I'm not sure if he is withdrawing from the situation or not.
AverageJoe Posted December 3, 2010 Posted December 3, 2010 Have you ever been to a Chinese restaurant? If so, ever played the 'fortune cookie' game? If not, this is how it works. Each time you open up a fortune cookie, you read your fortune then follow it up by saying; In bed. Now, take the concept of that game and apply it to men. When a man tells you what he wants, or does not want, add to the words of the sentence; With you.
nice-easy-day Posted December 3, 2010 Posted December 3, 2010 Now, take the concept of that game and apply it to men. When a man tells you what he wants, or does not want, add to the words of the sentence; With you. good point. maybe I should start saying that with women I'm truly interested in.
Author mortensorchid Posted December 3, 2010 Author Posted December 3, 2010 I have heard of that game. And forgive me for being a little thick headed, but you are saying that he's not that into me?
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