stevesknees Posted December 3, 2010 Posted December 3, 2010 After trying all the tricks in the book to get her back over the last month.. (and i did quite well nearly convincing her..) we had long talks on the phone, had drinks, slept together a few times.. etc etc etc. the breakup STILL took it's course. Don't think for ONE second you can stop it in those early stages. Don't think YOUR situation is unique or different and no-one else gets it, because it's all human nature. 1. Agree with break up 2. Break contact but don't ignore them 3. Do not come running !!!! I made the mistake of coming running thinking it was because they had changed their mind. It's not. It's because they're using you to make the break easier and find things to dislike about you to overwrite all the great memories they have. DO NOT give them the chance to overwrite those memories by keeping maximum distance. You'll overwrite those memories everytime you speak or meet and you'll hit the wall. My nose is sore I hit the wall so fast I should be 1 month down the line of the breakup, now I'm 1 day AGAIN
fiat500 Posted December 3, 2010 Posted December 3, 2010 Ugh. Yes. It makes sense that they will use us to try to overwrite the good memories just to be sure they made the right decision. The safest thing to do is disappear on them. Forever. So maybe one day you'll be their regret that they could never fix. I just got dumped a few weeks ago by my ex, who's living away at college, via facebook messenger and phone the next day. Most wonderful feeling in the world. I've lost so much respect for him. That's teenage bullsh**t. We're both almost in our mid 20s. I wish I never even f**king dated him. If there was going to be an end, I wanted a more respectful ending. COWARD.
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