Sammy88 Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 2 1/2 months ago. Since the break up we have spoken on and off. The last interaction we had, we actually ended up sleeping together and going on some dates. I found out that he was going on dates with another girl while all of this was going on. When I told him that I didn't want to see him anymore because of this the result was that he changed his phone number and blocked me on facebook. I know that I should probably move on, but I really want to win him back. I really loved him, and I feel like the problems we had as a couple could have been easily resolved if we had both just communicated more. I know he still loves me, but he was confused and torn between letting me go and taking me back. How can I get him back and rejuvenate our relationship? I really want a second chance. Is there hope?
b_rouse Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 The thing is, he's going on a date with another girl while he's dating you, the ex. To be honest, I'd not waste anymore time with him. If he did care about you, he'd be with you. The fact that he's just sleeping with you, and occasionally going on dates with you, while dating another girl says a lot about him. I mean, he blocked you on facebook and changed his number because he wasn't "getting any" anymore. If he cared about you, you wouldn't be a booty-call, nor just an option, you'd be a priority/necessity.
Leandro Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 The thing is, he's going on a date with another girl while he's dating you, the ex. To be honest, I'd not waste anymore time with him. If he did care about you, he'd be with you. The fact that he's just sleeping with you, and occasionally going on dates with you, while dating another girl says a lot about him. I mean, he blocked you on facebook and changed his number because he wasn't "getting any" anymore. If he cared about you, you wouldn't be a booty-call, nor just an option, you'd be a priority/necessity. I agree with rouse.
kheart Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 I found out that he was going on dates with another girl while all of this was going on. When I told him that I didn't want to see him anymore because of this the result was that he changed his phone number and blocked me on facebook. Are we talking abou the same guy here? lol. that is my story because I was in a relatioship with a guy(so I thought). After, I confronted him about being in a relatioship with another girl, he removed me from facebook, yahoo/hotmail messenger. And, now three days ago, he blocked my from his phone number. I feel hurt because I invested a lot on the relationship. So to you, just forget about him. He didn't care about you at all. Just move on. Life is full of surprises, don't worry someboody else will do the same to him. Be strong! 'cause God knows, I am trying.
Damaged23 Posted December 3, 2010 Posted December 3, 2010 Why do you want him back?! He was sleeping with you and talking to some other girl. You deserve more than just being a booty call. If he doesn't appreciate you someone else will for sure. Move on with your life, and leave him behind, he's nothing but a waste of time.
Author Sammy88 Posted December 3, 2010 Author Posted December 3, 2010 You are all so right. I guess I am just in denial and don't want to let him go. I loved him so much, but he did me wrong so many times. I don't want to be angry with him. I just want to let him go. How can I accomplish this? How can I walk away without being totally angry and hurt?
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