rainman1974 Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 Today my ex emailed me about a work function. There was going to be a cinema trip and she asked if i was going as she was thinking of going.. I replied and said that i think it had been canceled but i too really wanted to see the film... She didn't reply... As i was leaving work i emailed her and said, as the cinema has been canceled maybe we could go for a drink instead. Her reply was that she managed to get a couple of free tickets from work and is now going.. I'm pissed off. Why you ask? Well my hopes had been built up. She was making an effort!! Now she is going with her fella.. well i presume it's him.. And she's using work money!! In my mind, she is a selfish git.. she found someone better to go with and didn't need me so she sacked me off... I know it's not my business anymore and she can do what she wants. But i'm finding out more and more every day i can not be her friend. She just doesn't seem to care. Well of course she doesn't care. I'm nothing to her. This has been going on far too long and i don't know what to do anymore. WE CAN NOT BE FRIENDS. What to do?? Bloody thing!!
angelboots Posted December 4, 2010 Posted December 4, 2010 ok also trying the "friends with my ex thing" It doesnt work. full stop. so long as u want more it hurts. i keep trying no contact but always slide. I miss him. God only knows why, he is a selfish git, but they dont care the way we do, to them they can play the friend card, because they arent emotionally invested in us, but we read everything they say as a glimmer of hope only to have it squashed every third message or so. Working with my ex would kill me. Seeing him... ouch. Im sorry your in so much pain.
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