Ex girlfriend sent this email to me this morning???

[poorguy]

Ok..Together for 3 years broke up 6 months ago now. NC for 3 months until October. She moved in with the new BF like the week we broke up. Now they have a new place together. Since October we've had LC-which is fine with me because the actual pain of me having to break up with her is gone....

 

So this morning I get this "I had the most amazing sex dream about you last night and had to do, well, you know what for myself when I woke up lol"

 

Seriously, this is a girl not a guy. Would any of you be sending an ex anything like that 6 months later? Why? The sex was amazing

[AlisaMarie]

Ok..Together for 3 years broke up 6 months ago now. NC for 3 months until October. She moved in with the new BF like the week we broke up. Now they have a new place together. Since October we've had LC-which is fine with me because the actual pain of me having to break up with her is gone....

 

So this morning I get this "I had the most amazing sex dream about you last night and had to do, well, you know what for myself when I woke up lol"

 

Seriously, this is a girl not a guy. Would any of you be sending an ex anything like that 6 months later? Why? The sex was amazing

Wow, I don't know what to say to that. I me and my ex broke NC a couple weeks ago and after talking about feelings for a few he dropped the "I miss our sex" bomb on me. It made me feel like maybe that's all he missed about me. I can totally see how that effed with your head, but just think, she lives with her new man. She was laying with him and getting off thinking of you.. yeah great ego boost for you- but that poor guy.

[poorguy]

Hi Alisamarie...Haha I know..Maybe when he's even giving it to her she's still thinking of me lol. Poor dummy. I wonder if girls ever do compare their new guy with their old guy when it comes to that? She's been sending things like this off and on for a month now. I truly do wonder what's really going on in her head-i would never ask her though. Anyone?

[AlisaMarie]

Hi Alisamarie...Haha I know..Maybe when he's even giving it to her she's still thinking of me lol. Poor dummy. I wonder if girls ever do compare their new guy with their old guy when it comes to that? She's been sending things like this off and on for a month now. I truly do wonder what's really going on in her head-i would never ask her though. Anyone?

I am sure I read your story before, but refresh my memory- who left who here?

Oh she's totally wishing it was you giving it to her or she wouldn't be sending you that sh*t! She may have found an emotional attachment to him, but obviously his sex sucks to her. Lust is a powerful emotion. Sometimes more powerful than love. (not saying she doesn't love you... but you know what I mean.)

[poorguy]

She was turning into the party girl and hanging out with loosers so I finally had to just end it. I like watching Jersy Shore on TV because it's entertaining but I don't want to date Snookie art the same time ya know lol

[AlisaMarie]

ha ha ha Snooki is a hot mess. She doesn't know what she wants. She parties but lives with her bf. I just don't know why it's ok to mess with people's heads. She knows too, that you're a guy- and to drop the sex bomb on you will surly get your attention rather than her saying hey, I was thinking about you and miss you sometimes. So frustrating! I want to see what others think of your situation. People must be at work or something! ha

[poorguy]

Believe when I tell you it's not messing with my head-I'm beyond that. There is a few ways to get a guys attention and sex is one of them-the other one being food lol-or beer. Does anyone else know? I could see a guy doing this to an ex girlfriend but I've never had an ex girlfriend say things quite like this-especially when she has a new man. I'm not trying to read too much into this either by posting it. I really think something is going on with her and it has to do with sex, but I think it has even more to it than sex

[AlisaMarie]

Yeah, I really don't think she would be doing that if there was not an emotional attachment as well. Long story short, and this was about 10 years ago for me... I broke up with an ex that I seriously loved. I met someone new pretty quick and was with him for 3 years. We fought a lot and eventually broke up. I got back together with the prior dude. After the guy from the 3 year relationship found out... he was pissed because he always new how much I loved the other guy. I am guilty of calling him up and asking for sex even when I was with someone. Even though we fought, and I was with the man that I wanted to be with... I still needed something. We hooked up a few times, for him it was physical, but to me it was still holding on emotionally. Girls think sex does that. That's what she is doing, plain and simple.

[poorguy]

Do you mean using the sex thing because she still is holding an emotional connection? I know sort of how girls work and sex for them isn't quite what it can be like for guys. For them I think it is or can be very emotional or something close to their heart so to speak. She told me a few eeks ago they never would have moved in together but she had already signed the lease and she didn't really know what else to do at that point. Not to get off the subject of why all of the sex tak with me though lol

[AlisaMarie]

Don't get me wrong, I am sure there is still a physical want from her to you... but yeah- this is her way of telling you she misses you. She's just trying to get a reaction. I wish someone else would post so we can hear others opinions!!!

[Art_Critic]

She is just teasing you dude.. seeing if she still has you hooked by the corner of the mouth and looking to see if you come a running with a reply test like".. yeah.. me too"

 

Have you thought about sending her BF the texts ?.. she isn't exactly being faithful to him seeing she is telling you she dreams about you then fingers herself to orgasm when she wakes up and then texts you the info that she did it..

[Damaged23]

I agree with Art_Critic, she's just messing with you. She probably did dream about you, but that's not your concern. Pay no attention to her games.

[poorguy]

Haha who knows...So I emailed her back lol. Oh boy was I bad. It got her going...Love it!! I don't care if she's playing a game because if she is than so am I... I'm telling you though for the guys here something is going on with her to be this blatant. Girls don't get sexually explict like that if they don't have some sort of emotional hook to you. They stay clear of you, which is what I've done

[AlisaMarie]

Haha who knows...So I emailed her back lol. Oh boy was I bad. It got her going...Love it!! I don't care if she's playing a game because if she is than so am I... I'm telling you though for the guys here something is going on with her to be this blatant. Girls don't get sexually explict like that if they don't have some sort of emotional hook to you. They stay clear of you, which is what I've done

Oh no! Let the games begin! I have to ask poorguy... what did you say to her? lol

[Art_Critic]

Haha who knows...So I emailed her back lol. Oh boy was I bad.

 

Well.. that is what she wanted...

 

Now she knows she still has you hooked and will be at her beck and call for her to play with..

 

Dude..there is pain in your near future...

[Damaged23]

Well.. that is what she wanted...

 

Now she knows she still has you hooked and will be at her beck and call for her to play with..

 

Dude..there is pain in your near future...

 

 

EXACTLY!! I fear nothing good will come out of this!

[poorguy]

I emailed her a little while ago asking what it was about and then proceeded to tell her what I would have done to her had I actually been there lol!!! Then she was saying how she hasn't been wet like that in forever meaning it's happening to her while she's at work and how horny she is and if she saw me how she would jump on me. We had an amazing sexual chemistry and I know that girl's body and what to do to it. Maybe the new guy (don't mean to be crude) isn't hitting it properly lol

[AlisaMarie]

I emailed her a little while ago asking what it was about and then proceeded to tell her what I would have done to her had I actually been there lol!!! Then she was saying how she hasn't been wet like that in forever meaning it's happening to her while she's at work and how horny she is and if she saw me how she would jump on me. We had an amazing sexual chemistry and I know that girl's body and what to do to it. Maybe the new guy (don't mean to be crude) isn't hitting it properly lol

ha ha your ego must be HUGE right now! I just hope this doesn't lead to heartache for ya. wow! Her poor new guy. I almost feel bad for him.

[Art_Critic]

You really aren't getting it are you ?.. he is most likely hitting it good.. and maybe even better after you get her all wet..

 

Stop playing dude.. you are already thinking she wants you...

[poorguy]

I want to set the record straight here. Yes we had a relationship, yes it's over and I'm over it. Do i still love her-yes I don't care what she says-she can't hurt me now-I'm past that!!!!! So she can sex talk me all she wants she doesn't have sh_t on me and frankly I could care less if she thinks she does or not!!! If this is some ego boost for her than good for her glad I could help, but hurt me? noooo f-ing way-impossible...So that's that.. I was just wondering the motivation behind the sex stuff?? Like I said it's just not typical of an ex girlfriend who is happily with a new guy to bring up things like that...

[Damaged23]

You really aren't getting it are you ?.. he is most likely hitting it good.. and maybe even better after you get her all wet..

 

Stop playing dude.. you are already thinking she wants you...

 

 

 

Agree!! Stop playing games. She's not worth your peace and tranquility!

[Damaged23]

I was just wondering the motivation behind the sex stuff?? Like I said it's just not typical of an ex girlfriend who is happily with a new guy to bring up things like that...

 

 

I don't see why, if ur over her, should care about her or what she is doing behind her new guy's back. This games are not healthy, and i don't think it'll end up good.

[poorguy]

I am over her-that's not why I'm here. I'm not crying hoping for another chance- although given the chance I'm sure I'd have sex with her again. We had a great relationship while it lasted. I guess part of me wants to know her motivation because believe it or not of it's an emotional thing for her to me I want to know or if it's just a sex thing I want to know. This way I know what to do. I still would never do anything to hurt her

[Art_Critic]

To me it looks like her motivation is to boost her own ego.... at your expense.. and at the expense of her BF too...

[poorguy]

Her new guy is a loud, beligerant wanna be tough guy. Real tough guys don't advirtise it so I could care less what she's doing to him, with him or not...Any girls out there with opinions on why she's all hot and bothered all of the sudden??