Username37 Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 It really hurts and is heart wrenching when the love of your life just discards you like you meant nothing to her. Makes you think that your entire relationship was just a lie. And makes me think that I wasn't good enough for her. That's how it felt like for me. There are some days when I just want to tell her how could she be so heartless even after I stuck by her even through her most difficult times. But then I remind myself that it wouldn't solve anything and it would just make her think that she has this control over me and can treat me however she wants. Hey bud, I know that feeling. It's a bitch, but honestly, time time time. Time will heal all I guarantee you. My ex lacks empathy. She got with 5 guys over the summer in a span of 2 months. She tried hiding this information from me, but she told my family friends and our mutual friends. I want to call her and just yell at her, but that won't prove anything. I'm still in an anger stage, which is normal, but shouldn't be controlling me. It's an emotional rollercoaster friendo, but it will pass
EricaH329 Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Love it! Perfectly put, and I can completely relate. I'm happier without him now (it took me 40ish days to realize this). I still love and care for him, and I wish him the best, but I don't want to be with him anymore. It feels so good to say it! I don't want him back! I'm enjoying being single! Exactly!! I will always love my ex, but I feel like i'm passed that stage in my life. I'm excited about doing all of the things i've wanted to do, alone. It's great when you are finally able to say that you are content with the way everything ended up turning out. It's a great feeling, huh? :bunny:
b_rouse Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Exactly!! I will always love my ex, but I feel like i'm passed that stage in my life. I'm excited about doing all of the things i've wanted to do, alone. It's great when you are finally able to say that you are content with the way everything ended up turning out. It's a great feeling, huh? :bunny: Haha I KNOW!!! I want to thank him for not taking me back when I begged...twice! I'm happier without him! He can have fun in his relationship with her, I honestly don't care anymore. It feels good to not care anymore, so much weight has been lifted off my shoulders. When the break up happened, I was so worried about everying about him. I was worried he was going to have more fun with her than me, I was worried he was going to get hurt by her, I was worried he was using her as a rebound...but now I don't give a sh*t. It feels good to say it!
Fufu Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 b_rouse: You are reaching the closure very soon I'm so happy for you.
melenkurion Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 My partner actually left me for someone else. He gave me this speech about how he was gonna make it on his own, learn what he needs. But within two weeks he moved in with the guy he cheated on me with. He has his own place now. I think they are welcome to each other. They are both isolating themselves from their friends. My ex has jumped right from one relationship to another. I'm starting to be glad about it: I'm pretty certain it can't last ( other guy has severe depression that hasn't responded to treatment. He is just in temporary bliss cos he won). I am figuring my ex will be just coming out of a second relationship just as I start to be resalot feeling happy and healed. And he ain't gonna get any sympathy from anyone. But even if that doesn't happen, I pity him. He's so weak and feeble he's the one terrified to be alone. His best friend called him a WAG.
Fermentum Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 I'm actually glad my ex jumped into a relationship 2 weeks after our break up. It ripped the bandaid off quick! Very true. My Ex went public with her new relationship (changed FB profile photo, changed status, etc) only two weeks after we last saw each other. And while at the time it set me back, it does help that I was gotten out of the way early. I know that it's a rebound, and that it won't last. Since then, I only caved and snooped the new fling once, and I'm happily moving on.
hART Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 This is always frustrating to me, because I need time to brood and get over it. However, my exes always run off with someone else before it ends, it's great that they tell me instead of just cheating on me for years, but it always frustrates me to no end. Who cares if she made it first, just be happy for her and move on, that is what I always have to do.
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