Jdw_Icequeen Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 We broke up about 2 weeks ago. Some of you have read my threads. WE went a few days with out talking. He said we had alot invested in eachother and we said we would be friends and take it slow. So he texts me everyday if I don't text him. He never calls me though. I don't mind taking it slow but there is a huge diffrence between taking it slow and going in reverse. He says he wants to see me and hang out with me and is suppose to be here friday. I don't understand why he won't call me. No I don't call him either I'm trying to give him his space.
princedavis Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 Frankly we all have to agree that Sachem is great and deserves all his achievements. I understand he started playing when he was just 18 and has been playing ever-since. that is remarkable for any sportsman.
Author Jdw_Icequeen Posted December 2, 2010 Author Posted December 2, 2010 Dont post random crap under my posts or I will flag you.
Don_da_Ho Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 We broke up about 2 weeks ago. Some of you have read my threads. WE went a few days with out talking. He said we had alot invested in eachother and we said we would be friends and take it slow. So he texts me everyday if I don't text him. He never calls me though. I don't mind taking it slow but there is a huge diffrence between taking it slow and going in reverse. He says he wants to see me and hang out with me and is suppose to be here friday. I don't understand why he won't call me. No I don't call him either I'm trying to give him his space. Franklin D Roosevelt was the one that said "the only thing we have to fear is fear itself". LOL. Was that random enough? Hmmm. Is this a LDR? No matter, it's the same old story; he wants to keep you online for his own comfort .... until he meets someone that lights his fire. I just don't believe in this 'break up and then take it slow' stuff. I think it's BS. Space?? Sorry Sis, I would give him all the space he wants ... by not seeing him or talking with him. I think it's time for you to move on.
Author Jdw_Icequeen Posted December 2, 2010 Author Posted December 2, 2010 I figure it took alot to break up the relationship so perhaps so maybe we should take it slow to fix things if we could. No its not LDR he moved out. I have to see him because we have a baby together makes things harder.
Don_da_Ho Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 I figure it took alot to break up the relationship so perhaps so maybe we should take it slow to fix things if we could. No its not LDR he moved out. I have to see him because we have a baby together makes things harder. No offense Ice, but I just don't think that taking it slow works. It's either on or it's off. If he really wanted to be with you, he would and it would work. Going slow is just balogna. He's holding on because he's comfortable, he cares about you, the two of you have a baby together and so on. Ok, you have to see him because of your baby, but do your best to keep the contact only about your child.
aerogurl87 Posted December 3, 2010 Posted December 3, 2010 Franklin D Roosevelt was the one that said "the only thing we have to fear is fear itself". LOL. Was that random enough? Hmmm. Is this a LDR? No matter, it's the same old story; he wants to keep you online for his own comfort .... until he meets someone that lights his fire. I just don't believe in this 'break up and then take it slow' stuff. I think it's BS. Space?? Sorry Sis, I would give him all the space he wants ... by not seeing him or talking with him. I think it's time for you to move on. Lol, yeah the sports thing kinda threw me off track as well. Anyway, I agree with Don_da_Ho, I don't believe in the take things slow route. My ex tried that crap with me and now he's pissed I've moved on to someone else and claiming when the timing is right we'll be back together. My advice is to move on unless he comes begging for you back. Life is short, and too short to be waiting on someone and hoping they'll make a return into your life.
Author Jdw_Icequeen Posted December 3, 2010 Author Posted December 3, 2010 Well I am going to take it slow.. They always come back when its too late. I don't know how long I can take it slow afeter tomorrow I may freak and say f u NC! I have 13 yrs under my belt with 3 diffrent guys. Today has been such a long day.. But I did what I had to do.. unfortunatly like i said my slow isnt reverse. I won't take too long to just tell him to f off.. I don't know how long is too long. I will play my game to get him back until I cant do it anymore. I have no patients so probably sooner then later I don't honestly think I can even give it a month. Once I have made my final decisions I will move my thread to break ups. At that point it would take a miracle to put things right.. Ty aerogirl.
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