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Tomorrow is my ex's birthday. We have a bit of a crazy history together. We haven't really spoken to each other in quite a few months but we're on good terms. Is it inappropriate to text him tomorrow to say Happy Birthday?

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No. I write happy birthday to some of my exes on Facebook or whatever. I don't see why it's inappropriate, unless it feels inappropriate to you.

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If you're on good term I think it's fine

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Tomorrow is my ex's birthday. We have a bit of a crazy history together. We haven't really spoken to each other in quite a few months but we're on good terms. Is it inappropriate to text him tomorrow to say Happy Birthday?

 

I personally would not do it even if i wanted to.I just think it's a quite personal thing to do and you dont want to be too personal with an ex.It's like how come you still remember his birth date when you two are not close anymore.We are suppose to only remember the birth dates of those who are close and dear to us.Send him a happy birthday text is like telling him"hey,see, i still remember your birthday.how sweet is that?"It's going to look like you still care and think about him a lot

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2 questions:

 

1- is the ex in a new relationship?

 

2- besides the obvious, "it's nice to say happy birthday", why do you want to send this? Do you hope to get a response?

 

I guess that's 3 questions :)

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