fiser360 Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 So I have been dating this girl for almost two months now, and just like any new relationship things have been amazing. We get along great and haven't argued about anything. She has two kids, and I am beginning to love them dearly. So up until about 3 days ago, things have been awesome. But this guy that we work with is starting to cause problems, they have been good friends since high school and he has been there for her or whatever through some tough times, but there has never been any romantic feelings on her part. Well, he decides that he is going to start telling me all these lies about him and her to me. So, it started causing problems between us. We havent argued or anything but I am afraid I am losing her, she doesnt want to lose him as a friend, and doesn't want to lose me either. But i think that he has this "either be with me, and not him...or i'm not going to speak to you" kind of attitude. So it's starting to get to her... What should I do? is there anything I CAN do? I really am starting to fall in love with her and don't want to be without her. Any suggestions would be awesome!
jimbo Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 So I have been dating this girl for almost two months now, and just like any new relationship things have been amazing. We get along great and haven't argued about anything. She has two kids, and I am beginning to love them dearly. So up until about 3 days ago, things have been awesome. But this guy that we work with is starting to cause problems, they have been good friends since high school and he has been there for her or whatever through some tough times, but there has never been any romantic feelings on her part. Well, he decides that he is going to start telling me all these lies about him and her to me. So, it started causing problems between us. We havent argued or anything but I am afraid I am losing her, she doesnt want to lose him as a friend, and doesn't want to lose me either. But i think that he has this "either be with me, and not him...or i'm not going to speak to you" kind of attitude. So it's starting to get to her... What should I do? is there anything I CAN do? I really am starting to fall in love with her and don't want to be without her. Any suggestions would be awesome! Sit down and talk to her about it. COMMUNICATION IS KEY
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