SithLord Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 ill sum it, my X and I, I left her, she moved on, try going back denied. its been a month of NC, i been good with thoughts of her once in a blue, since we did have 3 years together, only natural. Now her friend which is my cousins girlfriend, apparently got close when my cousin dump her and they had something in common, but now my cousin is back with her friend and been together for about month. My cousin informs his girl new thing is to erase text messages between her and my x, since his phone is disconnected at the moment he uses her phone to call me at times, he doesnt care about their conversations but she put the thought in his head. second, my cousin girlfriend likes talking to my x on the phone with my cousin there, naturally i guess so he over hear things and third they like best friends when they were never ever like that. Funny how life works saturday im throwing my cousin girl a bday bash at a club we control weekly, ive show growth since then and i know my x knows about this. to me i feel like my cousin girl is a pipe line between us and also i know she gonna keep tabs on me from time to time u don't erase 3 years even though my X sleeping with someone else. Im fine just annoy at this new BFF relationship when they were never like that and we use to encourage it and they never bite, but now they r.. what you guys think?
Don_da_Ho Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 I think I would minimize contact with your cousin and his girl.
Author SithLord Posted December 2, 2010 Author Posted December 2, 2010 My cousin never talks to me about her, it was just something of annoyance. As for his girl yeah, become more of a ghost. I mean u gotta read between the lines. Me personally I'm just improving myself, I lost interest weather she calls me or not bc I'm improving myself.
firerabbit87 Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 Keep working at it! its funny I'm going through a similar situation and what keeps me working hard on myself is... Make it her loss that we're not together anymore
Author SithLord Posted December 10, 2010 Author Posted December 10, 2010 yeah and i saw her facebook and laugh man, putting up status about me. yeah her honeymoon over with the new guy...i guess she has many things to learn, as for me ive been in a good space of mine, im letting time do its thing for a full memory wipe.
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