RyanB Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 Last April my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. The break up itself was quite out of left field and I did not see it coming. We had been dating for 3 years and everything seemed to be going well. We rarely had fights and when we did It was always something silly. She told me that she was breaking up with me because she felt like she needed to figure herself out. We have since then talked on and off,trying to become a couple again twice since. The last time we tried to date was early October, things were going well again and it felt like old times. A week later she came to me and said that she just couldn't do it and that It didn't feel like it was working for her. We have not talked since the first week of November, no texts, emails, calls... I cannot stop thinking about her, and constantly find myself fighting the urge to text her or call. I wish I knew if it was this hard for her...I know this being my first love is going to be a tough one but I still have this feeling like we are going to get back together. I wish I could get rid of that feeling, as I am afraid its not true... Thank you for letting me vent, I was alone on Thanksgiving for the first time in 3 years this year (I don't have much family left near me) And I suppose that could be why I am missing her so much. Here's to being alone on my birthday coming up and Christmas.
AlisaMarie Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 Hi Ryan, 3 years is a really long time! I am sorry you are hurting so much. Wow, you have been on and off since April? I think the best thing to do is to try to move on as you have been. Don't let her come back again. I don't know why people do this. My ex would come back, and a week later say the same thing. We were together for a year, then on and off 4 times for 5 months. It was torture. Every time we broke up the pain was worse and worse. Just try to do you best and celebrate you bday and Christmas with as many friends and positive people that you can. Try to get through all of the special days that you spent with her. It's going to be hard, but if you were meant to be with her... you will be. Just don't wait, or push it.
Author RyanB Posted December 2, 2010 Author Posted December 2, 2010 Is it bad of me to hope that she texts me or calls me on my birthday? I feel like If she does Im just going to get my hopes up again so maybe its best if she doesnt.
durkadurka Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 Is it bad of me to hope that she texts me or calls me on my birthday? I feel like If she does Im just going to get my hopes up again so maybe its best if she doesnt. Hey Ryan, Yeah it's not that it's bad, it's just that it won't help you get on with your life.
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