mason Posted August 5, 2000 Posted August 5, 2000 what do you think is better, to leave a relationship while getting help or stay in the relationship while getting help? i don't know what to do. i am tired of hurting my boyfriend with my problems, yet he don't want to split up.
Tony T Posted August 5, 2000 Posted August 5, 2000 A relationship is a very positive experience if you can grow and improve within its context. As a matter of fact, when you cease to grow and evolve while in a relationship, it can get pretty stale. However, your partner must have an interest in seeing you grow and be a part of that process. You obviously aren't hurting your boyfriend very much or he wouldn't want to stay. However, when you do begin improving and start to become a different person, he may have to adjust to the new you. I am very happy to hear you are willing to take the first steps.
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