pnc22 Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 Hey here is the story... I am 21 and have been going out with a girl for 3 years. Everything was great we talked about getting married moving out and starting a family. I lost my job and couldnt find a job for the last year of that relationship and would depend on my gf financially. Sometimes i would lie to her and go out with friends and she caught me a bunch of times. We broke up before many times but no longer than a week. She asked me to marry her a couple of times but not having a job i would just tell her to wait. well recently she caught me in a lie when i went with my friends to the club and broke up with me. At first she wanted a break but i kept pressuring her and pleading for her forgiveness. She told me that every time i do that she just gets pissed off and to come when i have a job car school ect.. but i didint want to stop because it hurt so bad being without her. (Now i have all of that) We have been broken up for 1 month and two weeks now and a week ago she found a new bf. I saw them together at a club and ended up beating him up. After the fight she stood by his side. Now i found a really good job and im trying my hardest to show her that i can be dependent. I tried to text her call her but she just keeps saying that she cant forgive me and that we will never be together anymore. The thing is that she would always say that when we broke up . I got my life straight now and i want her back but i dont know what to do. I know she found a new guy but this was three weeks after we have broken up so im thinking shes just using him to hide her feelings from me. I am just wondering what she is feeling towards me and if there is apoint of trying anymore? I reall love her. Also she checks her email often and i sent her a long message how i changed and what i want and she still keeps it on top of her inbox
Leandro Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 Well beating up her new bf didn't help you at all. If anything, it made her believe that she made the right decision in dumping you and brought her and him closer. The fight made you look weak and pathetic. Plus, you shouldn't be mad at him, she chose him. You took her for granted. It doesn't matter what she's using him for. It's over I'm glad you're getting your life together now. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Please stop checking her emails. That's just creepy.
skydiveaddict Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 I agree with most of the above post, but beating up her new boyfriend was a good move. It let out some of your anger and showed your ex what a wuss her new guy is
Leandro Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 LOL there are other ways to channel your anger Sky. I'm just saying, not trying to be mean or anything .
skydiveaddict Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 (edited) LOL there are other ways to channel your anger Sky. I'm just saying, not trying to be mean or anything . True enough. But I bet she thinks her new bf is still a wuss (You're never mean Leandro) Edited December 2, 2010 by skydiveaddict
Leandro Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 True enough. But I bet she thinks her new bf is still a wuss (You're never mean Leandro) That's probably true.
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