daphne Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 To me, this signals that she wants the relationship, but doesn't want to put in the effort to make that happen. Either way, in a one week period I have been yelled at for being too negative and trying too hard to be positive. I find that fact hilarious. I agree completely. She just wants to bitch. Where's the positivity she's looking for? My interpretation of her actions are that she has simply lost interest in the relationship and wants it to be over. It seems like she is using any excuse to push me away. This is my interpretation of why she's behaving this way. She's just pushing you out and maybe hoping you'll get fed up and end the relationship. Maybe you should.
Author Sanman Posted December 8, 2010 Author Posted December 8, 2010 (edited) Well, We have a dinner date this weekend to talk and I think it will be our last (at least as a couple). Sitting here now, I am starting to realize that the two of us want very different things out of life and our relationship. Trying to change for each other has made each of us somewhat bitter and exhausted I think. As it stands, I believe I will always want more intimacy/private time, will always look at actions more than words, and enjoy more balance and a slower pace in my life. She, on the other hand, prefers more time in groups/with friends, will always take words more seriously than me, and enjoys a faster paced, busier life. In the end, these issues and the smaller issues mentioned earlier seem like too many differences to overcome. It is a shame, since some of the the ideals she held and I adopted have led to strengthened relationships with my friends, family, and career prospects. I hope I have affected her in a similarly positive way and that I continue to carry these ideals with me as I move forward. Edited December 8, 2010 by Sanman
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