john1988 Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 I was kinda seeing this girl for a few months who claimed to really like me but never seemed to show it. I finally snapped after another no show weekend and didn't contact her for weeks. She was however still texting me with pointless occassional questions but then I finally bit when she asked me to go over to her's I said I wouldn't cos she had her opportunities and I was dating someone else, she wanted to be friends but I refused it completely and told her to leave me alone. The thing is I'm not actually seeing anyone I just needed my respect back, I do at some point want to hear from her again. Was it a bad move what I did? Should I have met her and played it cooler from then on and acted like I wasn't bothered in the hope she'd be more interested? Have I totally burned my bridges?
AlisaMarie Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 I wouldn't care at this point if I were you. You said you were seeing her for months and she didn't show that she liked you all that much. Yea.. the chase is great, but after a few months you can tell she's not really the one. Make the fib you told her the truth and start seeing other people. After a few months... the person I am with better be in love with me... not acting as if they don't really even like me. Good luck hun.
Author john1988 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 I wouldn't care at this point if I were you. You said you were seeing her for months and she didn't show that she liked you all that much. Yea.. the chase is great, but after a few months you can tell she's not really the one. Make the fib you told her the truth and start seeing other people. After a few months... the person I am with better be in love with me... not acting as if they don't really even like me. Good luck hun. I know it's just difficult and at the start she did seem to really like me and to be quite honest was moving to fast for me, I've been hurt in the past and didn't want to dive in that's another reason I maybe feel bad about what I've done almost like I was stalling on her and that's why she's had a change of heart but I have done a few really nice things for her and I just feel she's not made the same effort with me
fiat500 Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Wait. If she seemed to really like you and you felt she was moving too fast did you even discuss it with her? Then you claim that she wasn't showing you that she was interested enough. Communication is a really big thing in relationships. If you can't discuss your fears and hopes then why bother being in one? It seems like you never really gave her a chance. A few months is nothing and not a long time. And then telling her that it was too late because you were already seeing one is a bit drastic. You should have sat down and discussed you didn't feel like she was in the relationship completely if that's really what you felt. But it seems like you should work on the issues you have with yourself first before trying again.
Author john1988 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 Wait. If she seemed to really like you and you felt she was moving too fast did you even discuss it with her? Then you claim that she wasn't showing you that she was interested enough. Communication is a really big thing in relationships. If you can't discuss your fears and hopes then why bother being in one? It seems like you never really gave her a chance. A few months is nothing and not a long time. And then telling her that it was too late because you were already seeing one is a bit drastic. You should have sat down and discussed you didn't feel like she was in the relationship completely if that's really what you felt. But it seems like you should work on the issues you have with yourself first before trying again. Agree with you on the communication and I thought I was honest with her when saying let's just see what happens and take it slowly but she wasn't turning up more times than I was seeing her and she always seemed to have a crap excuse ready. I was telling her to open up and be more honest with me but she would rather fob me off with nonsense
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