col182 Posted December 1, 2010 Share Posted December 1, 2010 Hey all, first post for me here. I felt very reluctant about posting on here, but thought I'd go for it, and see what responses I get... Anyway, basically I have very recently met this girl and for the first time in a long time, i have those butterfly feelings back. I went to primary school with this girl, however only for a few of the years and weren't really friends. I asked her out for a drink last week, and have since met with her a few times, dinner, cinema, the usual things. I came out of a 6 1/2 year relationship about 5 months ago, lived with my ex for about 10 months in rented accomodation, and got engaged the year previous. Made a lot of mistakes in that one, tried to mend something by getting engaged, but really I learnt that if you fall out of love with someone, you just can't fix it... So, in the lot of months since moving out and moving on, I've met a few girls, but none have given me 'those feelings'. Yea, I guess it may have been a little too soon after my ex, but hey, I know I'm ready now. So....why the title of the thread? Well, I really like this girl....and i'm getting all nervous and flustered about because I'm worried she may not feel the same. I did kinda tell her that that's how I was feeling, she told me she liked me too, but didn't want to rush head first into anything. I totally understand that, and told her it can all go at her pace etc etc All seems well....but my uber low confidence and self asteem are stressing me out no end.... C Link to post Share on other sites
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