kevin32 Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Ladies, have you ever been harassed by a guy from your job? Or a guy that creeps you out? What does he do, or how does he behave? Also, are there any comments or body signals you use to show him you're not interested? I'm sort of new to this and want to know what to avoid and what signals to read from women that are not interested. Thanks.
green_tea Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Never really been harrassed, but I do often get creeped out by guys. At my current work there are probably about 3 different guys at the moment that give me the creeps. Ones that I can tell have a little thing for me, and I definitely feel nothing for any of them. They do things like come close to where I am, or go out of their way to talk to me, and look at me a lot. One guy even grabbed my hands one time! One guy does leave me alone now, but I still feel creeped out when I see him. The other two are a bit harder to avoid, as I work directly with one, and close proximity to another. To show I'm not interested, I avoid eye contact with these guys, I don't speak to them, and I try to hide from them if they come near my cubicle... You can usually tell if someone is interested in you, but it is also easy to misread signs of interest. I am sure some of these guys have taken me being friendly and chatty as a sign of something more, when it's not.
Surrealist Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Guys, have you ever been harassed by a woman from your job? Or a woman that creeps you out? What does she do, or how does she behave? Also, are there any comments or body signals you use to show her you're not interested? I'm sort of new to this and want to know what to avoid and what signals to read from men that are not interested. Thanks. You bet I have! Mate, the ONLY thing I have found that worked was IGNORE, IGNORE, and IGNORE! Seriously I have had several women that I was not even remotely attracted to (in fact I was repulsed because their sedentary lifestyles were in stark contrast to my own) trying me through such things such as flirting, winking, and gawking at me, as well as a couple of other gestures that creeps me the **** out. I'm going through it right now with one sitting next to me (thankfully there is a divider between us) but she keeps gawking over at me. She use to use just about every opportunity she could find to mention my name aloud and try and get my attention and when I would look, she would be there giving me the 'creep stare' man. The ONLY way you can deal with this is IGNORE because everything you do will be interpreted as a sign of interest. Hope this helps, bro.
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