forestofcheem Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 NC isn't an option for me because I have to see him at ski practice. I feel uneasy being around him and really sad even after two months being broken up. I can have a civil conservation with him but it feels really wrong. What are other alternatives to heal other than NC?
PegNosePete Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Don't have civil "conversations". Be civil; say hello and goodbye, but not anything else.
TaraMaiden Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Other alternatives are to tell him quite openly that contact with him is painful, so to enable you to get over things, you are going to limit seeing him and speaking to him as much as possible. you realise the environment doesn't lend itself to this very easily, but you're going to keep it business-like, short, to the point and not in the slightest bit chatty. You hope he understands this and will at least have the courtesy to comply. THEN - Exactly as PegNosePete advises. he's spot-on.
PegNosePete Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Yep good point TM, might be a good idea to tell him what you're doing. If you just stop talking to him then he might just try harder, get funny, ask why the change, etc.
stunnedone Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 nothing good having contact. my ex broke up with me but i had to see her once in a while at work. I`d be better all week then when we`d see each other I`d become an ass or be caring i just could not help it but in the end she had a new dude so I was a fool.
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