lee123 Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 yeah i thought i could just move on but i can't, so i emailed my ex asking for her back :/ she left me, i probably have no chance, but i really can't cope anymore
Leandro Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Don't beat yourself up too hard. We all make mistakes. Restart NC and stick to it this time.
fiat500 Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 lee, hang in there. No contact is supposed to work for you and against your ex. Second chances are rare but the first step to at least bettering your odds of having one is NC for at least a month. No begging or asking. That's not the real you.
Author lee123 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 well..... it was for a month, then she contacted me.. then she's deleted me off everything again, now i'v gave in at 1 week :/ was going fine till she came back. I love her so much, and she just comes back then goes. I'm finding it so difficult to cope. I'm always looking at my emails hoping she's replayed again
AlisaMarie Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Lee, my ex did that to me for 5 months. I am not even on a week NC cause he always came back. But he's not this time, and I am not going to break! Did she write back?
Author lee123 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 Nope :/ just sent an email 2 hours ago. She won't reply, then i'll get back on track she will reply and i'm back where i started i can't move on
AlisaMarie Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Lee, it's ok! I miss him soooo much right now and it's ok. I just wish he was here, nothing else seems to matter. It's going to be a long while and a battle within ourselves before we feel better. I am not going to lay down and die over this. You won't either!
Author lee123 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 Lee, it's ok! I miss him soooo much right now and it's ok. I just wish he was here, nothing else seems to matter. It's going to be a long while and a battle within ourselves before we feel better. I am not going to lay down and die over this. You won't either! I know how you feel, no matter what people say about moving on its easy said than done. Theres not one moment she's not on my mind
AlisaMarie Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 It's ok to love and miss someone, even if they do not feel the same. It is better to not hate them and resent them. That's why I am trying not to find anything out that will hurt me. I just want to remember all of the good stuff. (even though he turned into a freaking douche)
Leandro Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 It is better to not hate them and resent them. True that.
collegeguy_24 Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 dude, i understand, I did the same thing after my ex left me. In fact, I almost did it tonight, but you just have to fight it. Its hard, perhaps the hardest thing you will ever do, but you must. If she replies, do not beg, grovel, or anything. Remember these words: YOU ARE MAN! YOU HAVE PRIDE AND DIGNITY! DO NOT GIVE IN, MAKE HER GIVE IN TO YOU! I say those words to myself everyday, you should do the same.
Fufu Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Don't blame yourself for giving in.... we are afterall human beings with feelings. Restart your NC Go Go Go... whatever you want to tell her, post it over here in this forum.
Gt.ooh Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Been there lee...oh too many times. DO NOT beat yourself up..DO NOT overthink...and lastly DO NOT contact, and you'll be fine:laugh:. Trust us. LS'ers are here for a reason, and the reason is for us to help you, and for you to take the advice in and register it as quickly as possible. The quicker you grab a hold of your dignity, the quicker everything else falls into place.
Author lee123 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 Thanks for replying everyone, i'll start NC again today. :/, hope it goes better this time around.
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