yessy21 Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 Okay so Im curious to know. I met this guy and we hit it off pretty nice. good conversations nice guy. He tells me he is looking for something serious and that If im not then dont waste his time. I was like ok. we always hang out at my house. we have never had sex the most we have done is kiss and it took him 3 weeks to kiss me. the other day he came over and we were just hanging out when i told him lets go out with my friends for drinks. he said ok. when were leaving he says he just got a text message that he has to pick up his nephews at santas enchanted forest. he tells me ill meet u there go with ur friends and ill bring u back home. He never showed up. 3 hrs and all i got was a text message saying things got complicated. So im sitting here like an idiot wondering why? why couldnt he just say im not interested in going? we havent talked since then. he hasnt tried to call me or anything. What do u guys think happened?
Ilovecake Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 He possibly got nervous about hanging out with your friends and now is avoiding you because he feels stupid about taking off like that. You might want to contact him but don't make a big deal about that evening, bring it up but don't push the subject. Good luck.
Author yessy21 Posted November 30, 2010 Author Posted November 30, 2010 So even if he stood me up? i mean maybe he just wanted to hang out at my house because he thought that eventually he would get laid or something? I dont know. Im all bummed out because i really did like him. I felt like if i didnt meet his expectations to go out in public or something.
Ilovecake Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 You can't sit there and wonder, it will drive you crazy. If he feels comfortable enough to sleep with you you should feel comfortable enough to talk to him about his odd behaviour. Just call and ask. If he avoids talking about it you know he's not the one for you.
dispatch3d Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 yeah he may have interpreted it as you weren't interested (in your wording, he wasn't going to "get any") so he bailed. Hanging out with your friends may have meant becoming your friend in his mind. But quite honestly I'm just pulling stuff out of my ass because you haven't given any information. Call him ****head.
Author yessy21 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 ok so i texted him and he didnt reply back. He must have definitely lost interest because its been 1 week already.
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