andyohyeah Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 funny thing is I am going through a breakup at the moment and well its been a month of NC. today is my ex's bday and I was seriously debating on wishing her a happy bday. Funny part is I have an ex from many many years ago I was madly in love with and she has the same bday. 2 girls I can honestly say I was in love with. So instead of wishing my ex's happy bday from now on. Nov. 30th I will treat it like my own bday and buy myself something nice. I've seen a lot of people ask this question about should you contact the ex on their bday... I think people are still clinging onto hope that they will get back together and well in rare occasions people still genuinely remain friends.
Idalis Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 thats a good idea to celebrate it in your own way, and even better idea to not wish any ex's a happy bday. It makes both parties uncomfortable IMO.
GreenPolicy Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 If they wanted to celebrate their birthday with you, then they wouldn't have broken up. My exe's birthday was two and a half weeks after she broke up with me. I agonized over it, but decided it was not worth breaking NC for.
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