dyermaker Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 If you and your current broke up, what would you miss most about him or her?
carla Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 The respect the he gives me. This is the only relationship that I have had respect.
jenny Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 o, you got me in post-coffee-date throes - scooby-doo t-shirts - geek enthusiasm over getting a new sword ina fictional game for a fictionally low price - indulgent smiles at my i love lucy antics (who else would put up with me, really?) - snorting-up-latte funny retellings of workaholic's problems ok, dyer, pony up. very few people ask questions that they themselves do not want to answer: what would you miss most about your beautiful girlfriend?
morrigan Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 His kindness His unselfishness His intelligence His respect and tolerance His books
look forward Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 his laugh his sulks his hugs his kisses his ablility to make me smile his touch and the way he looks at me...
corythosaurus Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 Her easiness. Her restleness. Her ability to love me. Her ability to let me love her. Her being my best friend. Her goofiness. Her shyness. Her caring. Her craziness. Her silly habits. Her love of sports. Her being my wife. Her hummers while I watch hockey.
Islandsaway Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 his smile his arms his talks the way he looks at me the way he dances his cuddles and sex cuz it was amazing laying in his arms just knowing he's there...
DerangedAngel Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 *his laugh (and his ability to make me laugh) *his cuddles and kisses *the way he doesn't mind watching low-budget films with me *his **** *the way he smells *the way he grabs my butt in public *all of the silly made-up songs he sings for me in my voicemail *his inablity to be subtle *the way he blushes when I call him any of his billion pet names *his wonderful cheese-dip (he's so proud to make it for me, but I have to wash the bowl ) *his snoring! -Deranged
meanon Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 HA reminds me, Everything except his moods first thing in the morning and when driving.
gaia Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 Maybe we should start a thread about what we'd miss LEAST for all the "married-for-ages" oldies?
meanon Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 Least: Wearing of odd socks if he hasn't done the laundry
ladyangel Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 What I would miss most: His thoughtfulness His love and respect for me His love of children and dogs His sense of humor/the way we're able to laugh together What I would miss least: His aggressive driving His snoring
CaterpillarGirl Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 I'd miss: * playing video games at 10 in the morning * waking up next to him * watching him pretend to like ballet for my sake * his teasing * his smile * philosophical discussions about the Simpsons * snuggling with him * holding his arm when we walk because he knows I'm such a klutz I trip at least once * the little kisses on my cheek * him trying not to gloat when he's beaten me at a boardgame * his inability to correctly pronounce words in both Spanish (one of my native languages), and his native language, English
jenny Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 lol - i think *i* love your SO! your list is so great and so familiar - our SOs would really like one another!
Author dyermaker Posted March 11, 2004 Author Posted March 11, 2004 Originally posted by jenny ok, dyer, pony up. very few people ask questions that they themselves do not want to answer: what would you miss most about your beautiful girlfriend? <--- Let the record indicate that I'm delegated to just ONE thing Her voice If the daily bliss of our seperated relationship were to ever cease, I'd have all of the beautiful thoughts she's written, all of the notes of insight into her soul, all of the pictures indiciative of her supermodel good-looks, but I'd still be unable to conjure up the sound of her voice in my head---the way she sings, talks, laughs, I'd be a wreck without it.
A Thought Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 - When we discuss a subject---whether we agree or disagree, when one of us plays "devil's advocate" and brings up all the "what ifs". - When he makes love to me or when we just do it for a longgg time. - The way he listens and responds in honesty. - His little "I love you notes" with all of there grammatical mistakes. - His goofiness. - His appreciation of my goofiness. - When he serenades me with either an already composed song or one he made up on the fly. - When he hugs, kisses or physically reaches out to me "just because". - The way he snuggles me into his arms. - The way he learned to cook for me. - The way he is soo proud of his culinary accomplishments. - His ability to laugh at himself and at me. - His ability to make me laugh even when I am sooo angry that I want to scream. - The way he dances me around the kitchen, while I am trying to cook and something gets burned and he eats it anyway...and says it's the best he has ever eaten. - When we do the dishes together and end up in a water battle. - The way one minute we can be in a serious discussion about something philosophical and the next rolling on the floor laughing because someone did something wacky. - His intensity when he plays basketball or a board game-- his ability to be a gracious winner or loser. - His intense desire to do well at his job. - His love of my family
Sundaymorning Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 Originally posted by dyermaker <--- Let the record indicate that I'm delegated to just ONE thing Her voice If the daily bliss of our seperated relationship were to ever cease, I'd have all of the beautiful thoughts she's written, all of the notes of insight into her soul, all of the pictures indiciative of her supermodel good-looks, but I'd still be unable to conjure up the sound of her voice in my head---the way she sings, talks, laughs, I'd be a wreck without it. you never met her?
jenny Posted March 11, 2004 Posted March 11, 2004 the way she sings, talks, laughs, I'd be a wreck without it. dude - you are soo sweet, discerning, and awesome. i hope you send her your answer. where were guys like you when i was younger? you and your girl are pretty damn lucky.
UCFKevin Posted March 12, 2004 Posted March 12, 2004 Since I'm not with anyone, I'll just say what i DO miss most about my ex. The way I'd feel when I'd wake up early in the morning just to hold her before we had to go to work or school. How it felt like there was nothing wrong in the world, and how happy and safe and loved she made me feel in these moments. Watching her in my arms, kissing her forehead, seeing that she felt the same way I did...nothing topped it. Nothing can top that.
CaterpillarGirl Posted March 12, 2004 Posted March 12, 2004 Originally posted by jenny your list is so great and so familiar - our SOs would really like one another! Yeah, probably. If you come out to the Rockies, we can visit Dave and Busters and get drunk enough to discuss the Simpsons with due levity...I mean gravity.
Author dyermaker Posted March 12, 2004 Author Posted March 12, 2004 Originally posted by jenny where were guys like you when i was younger? you and your girl are pretty damn lucky. Oh come on Jenny, you know women only love jerks
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