flyfishin Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 I got 2 private messages thismorning from my gf's ex on facebook. He was warning me that she played him and will play me too. But he sounded very bitter in one of the messages saying she has no right to keep posting *expletive* pictures of us together on facebook. She told me they broke up 3 yrs ago because he cheated on her, in his message to me he claoms he dumped her 3 yrs ago??? He says she has no right to post pics of us on facebook because they just broke up for the second time a few months ago. She told me they never got back together after they broke up 3 yrs ago. So some1 is clearly lying. The day she posted in relationship w/me on facebook he called her and I was right there. The next morning he called her again and I wasn't there and she still told me he called and how she asked him to stop calling. Who do I approach first? My ex or him? How do I handle this one????
O'Malley Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 Who do I approach first? My ex or him? How do I handle this one???? You do...nothing. If you are ending your relationship with your girlfriend (as you referred to her as your ex at the end of your post), why confront her? And even if you're not, what exactly are you confronting her about? She told you that he called, instead of hiding it from you. Who cares who broke up with whom, or if she dated him again prior to being with you? It's curious that you would invest so much faith in the claims of a total stranger that you've never met. He sounds possessive, belligerent, and overall creepy. It's best not to have anything to do with him and to block his contacts. If you're going to approach your girlfriend with anything, it should be about his contacts to you, that you're uncomfortable with him contacting either of you and you would like her to block him as well. He doesn't need access to either of your lives. The only issue you should have is if, for some reason, she refuses to end contact with him.
Author flyfishin Posted November 30, 2010 Author Posted November 30, 2010 I'm definitely satying w/her. I'm not saying I believe him and she blocked him last nite I found out bc he commented on one of our photos. I was just asking do I answer him or tell her that he messaged me.
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