g1lly Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 Hi guys, I am here looking for a few opinions or advice on a recent situation. I am a married woman however at the moment seperated from my husband. I connected with a guy on an internet site for marital affairs ( please dont judge me, I thought I may find someone in the same situation as me there ). I began talking to this guy who was very sweet and we instantly connected. He told me straight away he had a partner and asked if that would be an issue to which I replied with my situation. It seems we are both looking for the excitement of something new, while deciding whats going on at home, a little escape from reality. We had a few emails back and forth and some saucy msn chats, then last week we met up and had a lovely evening with a couple of kisses at the end. We have arranged to meet again in about 3 weeks time. I spoke to him a couple times on the phone after our meet and I e-mailed him yesterday to receive the reply of- Ive been thinking about you all weekend etc etc. To which I replied with something similar and saying I was looking forward to meeting again I am a little out of practice with all this so I have a few questions, how often should I email? Should I leave it a couple of days now? Wait for him to mail me? Also I can be a little jealous lol ( something of which I know is my own short coming) I realise that when you meet from these kinds of forums he is talking to other women as I am talking to other men but last night I tried to sign into msn to see who was around on my phone and he did show as online, but i kept loosing connection, when I finally signed in again he was offline. Perhaps he was logging off, couldnt chat ( we always have lengthy chats) or maybe he was avoiding me. I think however this may be me being far too paranoid. What do you think? I dont want to wreck things by going over the top- or playing it too cool. What do you all think?
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