Jdw_Icequeen Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 This is my second time here. For some of us having any hope to fix things puts us right back where we started. I have 13 yrs under my belt in the relationship area. Not with the same person. 3 people.. I'm a long termer. I know when you have hope you definetly have a chance of putting yourself in a hole! You need to find balance. Its going to start rough. If you find yourself in the waiting game for them to come back things might feel worse. For you that are still in the waiting game. The best option is to find yourself. You may not even realize your heart is ready to move on because your so sad at the thought you were rejected in the first place. Do we see people here saying I dumped them I want a second chance? Rarley.. When they leave even if we don't see there reasons its good enough for them. Because we love them we must understand that. Even if your not religous. Forgiveness is actually the best thing for you in the end. It will have an impact on you and your future relationships. Having forgiveness for them we will find forgiveness for ourselves. You are somthing you do deserve better. Rejection feels like it may kill us but it will make us stronger. Why do you need to forgive yourself? Forgive yourself for feeling you trusted the wrong person. Forgive yourself for what awful mistakes YOU know you made in the relationship. Forgive yourself for those moments of so much pain that you can't get out of bed and feel insane. Forgive yourself for diving into the unknown hoping for a second chance and getting hurt AGIN! We are only human. Love is the strongest emotion alive. When we find it in our hearts to love ourselves and forgive ourselves we have found the trued key to hope and happiness.
Ajax Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 Nice post. I agree with you 100%. I'm still working on forgiveness myself, and it's not easy. But I know from past experiences that it ultimately sets you free. Holding onto the pain and anger will eat you up and hold you back. We all need to work towards the day when could, if given the opportunity, look our ex straight in the eye, smile, and say, "thanks for the good times, I wish you the best."
Author Jdw_Icequeen Posted November 30, 2010 Author Posted November 30, 2010 Well said Ajax! Its definetly one of the most difficult feelings to work on. Now I am wondering why it says there is 3 replies when there isn't. hmmmmm.
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