suzyq63 Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 Been dating a guy I went to high school with for over a year. Reconnected through an evil social networking site. He was an over the road trucker, and he seemed like he really liked me. He texted and emailed all the time. I knew financially he wasnt doing so well and at the time I didnt mind. He always came to my house, I cooked, I drove us to where we were going out too, most of the time 95percent I bought our meals and such. Obviously resentment starting building up..on my part. But he was sweet and he was company for me and he acted like I was everything to him. Even if he was a bit of an oaf. We went on vacation to FL together, I had free tickets to Disney world and he didnt have the money so he promised he would pay his half after income tax return. ..So about 8 months after we were going out, he just stopped texting and calling. Finally on the 3rd day he said, it wasnt me it was him. That old and tired spiel. I launched on him, all my frustrations came out, I was wicked. I deleted him from facebook, etc. I started dating another guy we went to school with about 2 weeks later just for company. Him and I hit it off, and soon we were going out every weekend. At a school gettogether Guy #1 showed up and we were drinking and we decided we would get back together. So i kinda dumped guy 2. To make a long story short, we have been back together 4 months and same old **** only he got a decent paying job, never paid me back incidentally, sex still very selfish on his side, and Sat. he was supposed to come over for dinner but didnt contact me till 7pm that night. I was furious because I said he could have called earlier even if he was busy at work...he just said OK BYE and hung up and no contact was made...I changed my status on facebook to single and about 4 days later he must have seen it and removed "our pic" as his avatar...Still no word from him. I saw he added a girl he had deleted when we got back together so I sent him a nasty email and he deleted me from Facebook. So I launched into a terrible tirade and called him every name in the book. I also temporarily deactivated my FB acct...now I am back to kinda missing him and even though I know he was bad on so many levels, I cant get over this...as much as I want to. What is wrong with me>? I may add I am a nice looking woman and he is bald and chubby but at certain times can be attractive. I think he is a very narcisstic man with no conscience. Please advise and be kind. Thanks!
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 This shines new light on the phrase: "... graduate from high school..."
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