Author Quantum_Nuka Posted December 6, 2010 Author Posted December 6, 2010 Breaking contact is probably best, you don't want to feel like this for months or years to come. She has the power now and by cutting off contact you will regain power within yourself. I think you've hit the nail on the head so to speak with 'you're feeling lonely' and playing the what if game... I know you know all those things, how it wouldn't have worked etc and nothing I can really say will make you feel better but we've all had those emotions and sometimes reading other people's stories helps and to know that you're not alone! Just as I posted Day 3 of NC, my ex texts me... wtf. I did not reply... I can't. I keep thinking how he gave up on me and I deserve someone who wouldn't do that.
Eternity001 Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 Yeah it's just weird. I don't know how I ended up here but it's bull**** NC is a tough business. I'm no good at ignorance at the best of times with anyone and if I do ignore her I know what's going to happen. She'll get abusive pretty quick and throw out comments about me sleeping other people. She doesn't know I've been with anyone to the best of my knowledge. I need to get a phone that shows me who is has messaged me before I open it. She'd probably give up on me pretty quick too though, which is sad and hurts a little but I guess that's life.
LittleMike Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Just as I posted Day 3 of NC, my ex texts me... wtf. I did not reply... I can't. I keep thinking how he gave up on me and I deserve someone who wouldn't do that. I know it's hard but keep at it, it feels a whole lot better after a while. I constantly ignore most of her calls and she's starting to feel the distance between us. By Communicating with them you are helping them not feel bad about the breakup while you don't heal at all. Stay strong, don't sacrifice your wellbeing just to feed their ego.
Leandro Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Breaking contact is probably best, you don't want to feel like this for months or years to come. She has the power now and by cutting off contact you will regain power within yourself. I think you've hit the nail on the head so to speak with 'you're feeling lonely' and playing the what if game... I know you know all those things, how it wouldn't have worked etc and nothing I can really say will make you feel better but we've all had those emotions and sometimes reading other people's stories helps and to know that you're not alone! Just as I posted Day 3 of NC, my ex texts me... wtf. I did not reply... I can't. I keep thinking how he gave up on me and I deserve someone who wouldn't do that. Keep it up QN. Remember that last sentence.
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