Lauriebell82 Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 I don't know where this OM is comming from. He actually called me to tell me to come down he is by my house at 3 in the morning. So I did and I told him off but he wouldn't listen he started making out with me on the street and dragged me into the cab to go over to his place. So I went and then we had sex I wanted to leave he wouldnt let me leave I had to push him away he was super angry at me telling me please stay why are u leaving again he wanted me to go somewhere with him during the day he said he had plans for us which was very strange to me. I left anyway and I didn't hear from him for like a week then he calls again at 3am my husband answers the phone and tells him off then he gets scared!! And now after 3 months NC he calls again this time 5 times it was like 5AM on thanksgiving which was strange!!! It is definately starting to feel like you think this is all some kind of game. Your husband has anger issues and has threatened violence, OM does not sounds he is much of a prize either. Neither of these men are emotionally stable, and this will end very badly if it continues to happen. You are the only one who can put a stop to it, but the more you post, the more it seems that you like this drama and excitement and don't actually want it to end. If that's the case then I suggest you leave your H so he does not end up in prison, although I think that some anger management classes could do him some good.
Author Gotti25 Posted November 30, 2010 Author Posted November 30, 2010 Maybe it is just a game. But I need to put a stop to this most likely the OM won't be trying to contact me after the treatening texts he got from my H but then you never know!!
Lauriebell82 Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Maybe it is just a game. But I need to put a stop to this most likely the OM won't be trying to contact me after the treatening texts he got from my H but then you never know!! You said yourself that he wasn't afraid of your H, so what makes you think he won't try to contact you? He's got his own issues, so he probably enjoys the game just as you do and likes getting a rise out of your husband. IF you want OM to stay away then you need to be very clear with him about it.
spice4life Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Maybe it is just a game. But I need to put a stop to this most likely the OM won't be trying to contact me after the treatening texts he got from my H but then you never know!! This guy sounds like he feels entitled and that he can just grab you and have you whenever he feels like it...in the wee hours of the morning no less. AND, without any regard for your H. I wouldn't put any stock in the "I love you", they are just words - his actions speak volumes. The point is that it doesn't matter why HE keeps doing this. The question you need to be asking is why YOU keep letting it happen. That is where the answers are and it sounds like you really need to take a look at that. Is this an ego boost to you? There are better ways to get attention instead of settling for some guy who pops in every now and then for a booty call. You have the power to block him from contacting you and it is what you definitely need to do.
Author Gotti25 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 Maybe your right I probably should!!
Author Gotti25 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 It sounds like you are enjoying the whole game and mystery and you like that OM and your H fight over you. As I posted at the beginning you are 3 responsible of the escalation. The whole story is ridiculous. Seriously??
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Why do you keep having sex (or any contact at all) with this other man? What do you want? It bugs that you keep describing what HE did and what your husband did, but you seem to portray yourself in a passive role. You didn't "end up" hooking up. You actively participated. Sounds like you are not interested in remaining married to your husband anymore.
Author Gotti25 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 I like being married maybe I just like to have sex with different man LOL!! I'm gonna get attacked for posting this!!
Heather1 Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Which do you like more? being married or sex w/ other men? If it's the sex, then be single. Or tell your H the same thing you just wrote & see if he's OK w/ that. In the meantime, please get yourself checked for STD's. Not a judgement, all for your safety.
East7 Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Seriously?? Oh very seriously baby, I smelled it since the beginning.. You confirmed 100% what I have posted above the thread. You like to be married but you don't like the marriage. You like to be chased and seduced. You are a player I feel sorry for your hubby.
USCGAviator Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 You should seek a divorce ASAP so you can share your bed guilt free
Lauriebell82 Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 I like being married maybe I just like to have sex with different man LOL!! I'm gonna get attacked for posting this!! Um, yeah definately divorce your husband. Obviously your behavior triggers anger in him and you are essentially just playing games with him. If you want to have sex with other men then you should be single.
Author Gotti25 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 Hahaha I don't think that's gonna happend no divorce I like someone to take care of me!!
Woggle Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Hahaha I don't think that's gonna happend no divorce I like someone to take care of me!! So your husband is there to pay your bills and support you while you go out and play around? Yet we wonder why some men are so afraid of marriage.
myname Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Hahaha I don't think that's gonna happend no divorce I like someone to take care of me!! oh wow, well from what you've said it seems like you're ok with your situation, but you're unlikely to get a lot of sympathy for it.
Author Gotti25 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 Oh very seriously baby, I smelled it since the beginning.. You confirmed 100% what I have posted above the thread. You like to be married but you don't like the marriage. You like to be chased and seduced. You are a player I feel sorry for your hubby. Exactly Lolz!!
Owl Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Don't feed them, take away the bridges and they'll disappear.
Author Gotti25 Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 Hmmm what's that supposed to mean ?
Carrot2000 Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 Don't feed them, take away the bridges and they'll disappear. Exactly. NEXT>>>>>>>
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