edwards99 Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 For those who remember my story...here is my question..during our brief 3 month seperation....we both seen another person...I have had issues with it and it bothers me even tho I have done the same thing but for some reason...I kindas feel that what she did is worse than I..even tho I know it isn't on another level...It feels like what she did has cheapened what we have and I want a future with her...we both love each othert a lot and both are on the same page...but why do I feel this way...
AlisaMarie Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 Because the girl that you love was in the hands of another man! Of course that sucks... but what sucks more is probably not being with her at all. You have to get over this. You said yourself you dated someone too. Please do not ruin what you have for something that happened when you were not together.
Livelovelearn Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 (edited) I agree with the above poster.. There is no double standards here...put your pride aside and deal with it. Also instead of focusing on her being with another man WHEN YOU BOTH WERENT TOGETHER, try focusing on the point that she wasnt as happy with that person as she was with you and thats why you both are missing eachother and want to get back (I assume). If you are both deciding on the second chance, let go of the resentment and anger and allow a fresh start. Good luck! Edited November 30, 2010 by Livelovelearn
Jdw_Icequeen Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 (edited) Well here for you I can't be positive you have some nerve thinking its ok for you but not for her to do the same. you also sound like somehow you think your better then her and deserve more. PLEASE! You either let it go or leave the relationship. Maybe you need to glance at your ego! Hypocrits are a nasty bunch!! Edited November 30, 2010 by Jdw_Icequeen
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