watshername Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 I'm in absolute total anger stage. I hate exes, who do they think you are. While us dumpees would do anythign and everything to get them back they just sit on their high ****ing horse loving all the attention while our lives are in ruins and our hearts being trampled on. Who the **** are they to make us feel like this and the more they resist the more we try. They don't deserve to be wanted this that, to have someone offer them everything for them to turn their nose up to. Why is it the more they ignore the more we want them? even if we know they are not right for us? How do I stop feeling like this?! I feel like I'm going insane!!!!
poorguy Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 And there is the anger stage at it's finest!!!.... What your feeling right now is exactly the way your supposed to be feeling right now. At this point your anger is a gift from him to you that is going to allow you to heal and be sooo much stronger..Soo keep posting-get it out!!! F him anyways!!!
Fufu Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 Let them live in guilt.... I always believe in KARMA.. Let us live in joy and happiness.
Lots0fLove Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 I am in the same situation this is hopeless but honey this is the break over process no one can garante you when you will stop feeling this way but all these hopeless emotions are normal but it truely isnt fair I am sure there is a good reason behind it as for now just try to pull on even if its the hardest thing to do and try not to focus on the ex and I just heard from someone dont dwell on the good times.
AlisaMarie Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 Yes, who do they think they are? And when we do ignore then they crawl and beg and cry... only to break our hearts again as this vicious cycle repeats. I used to think that NC was to bring him back, but now I know... it's just to get over it without dragging it out. So very sad for all parties.
SmileyGirl Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 I agree with the other posters. This is your anger stage! Also, some food for thought.... It's human nature to want what we can't have. When we "ignore" people and proceed to move on they always seem to pop up... Good Luck in your healing process.
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