strangeways Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 Yes strangeways... I know! I remember I quit smoking years ago... the first day I was like "eff it".. then as the day progressed I needed a fix, I wanted more and more. I missed my cigarettes. Then the cravings would come but not as strong. Sadly, I quit for a couple months and am still a smoker. Tell me about it! I gave up for 8 months and when she left I turned into a chimney! That's next on the list to sort.
Author AlisaMarie Posted December 2, 2010 Author Posted December 2, 2010 "We want closure which is never going to come in a way that we want, but we can find closure by No Contact. We want to be heard, want them to know the pain they've caused, but they are never going to listen, and if they do, they don't hear the words. What we often miss is the beauty of "No Contact." You are finally saying No More. It is your voice without the words, but they hear it loud and clear as if you screamed from the top of your lungs - "Go to Hell." No Contact is your pure and sweet rejection. It is empowering. It is your last word. It is your closure. It is one of the most hurtful narcissistic injuries you could inflict. They have finally come to understand you know just who and what they are. They know the tricks do not work anymore. They know you are no longer prey or a pawn in their game. It is your last word." Stay strong. I absolutely love this. It's so true. I read it over and over again. Thank you.
strangeways Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 I absolutely love this. It's so true. I read it over and over again. Thank you. Read it every time he contacts you or you want to contact him.
Damaged23 Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 Thank you for your comments and support. No need to give thanks. I'm glad I can help, and get help from people who are going through the same as me, cause even though i have friends and my mom helps me a lot, i feel sometimes as if im bothering them w my crying. Hehe
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