davisc123 Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 So I am preparing to move out the area and leave my ex behind for good. She is with her new man, the one she cheated on me with and eventually left me for. She had been stringing me along for months, and for quite a while I would have taken her back if she had commited properly. The last few weeks I've seen her in work but haven't spoken to her at all. But yesterday she text me out of the blue. She has gotten wind of me leaving, and bombarded me with texts begging me to see her to talk. She says she will fight for me, spend her life making me happy etc etc. I ignored her and she started getting more desperate in her texts. She no longer has the power over me that she once had and I think she realises this. In the past I would have ran to her, now I feel like I could ignore her. But instead I text her back saying if she really wanted to make me happy she needs dump her new bf, burn her bridges entirely with him, and then come back to me and then I would consider taking her back. Funnily enough, the barrage of texts have ceased. I am awaiting the backtracking, at which point I will ignore her. I am totally fed up with her BS
voels Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Congrats on reaching the indifference stage. I think she's not worth it, just move on with your life. Cheater once, cheater twice.
106rob Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Congrats on reaching the indifference stage. I think she's not worth it, just move on with your life. Cheater once, cheater twice. yep never a true word spoken! my ex is a prime example! she cheated on her bf before me..... 3 times!...onece iv found out was with me tecnically they were on a "break" where as she told me they had finished months before and then a year n bit into our relationship i found out she had been txting an old school friend of hers...(it was problalby more than that looking back) anyway i let that lie...we went on holiday got on great etc better than ever! and then the biggest bombshell! i started getting the same feelings again as last time............but this time i went the whole hog checking everything i could! the final thing was her useing my laptop...leaveing her hotmail logged in... and bam...a folder full of e-mails with details of montns of cheating on me!......with my ****ing cousin! who was 10 years older and had a gf of 7 years...at this point i went mad phoned his gf and forwarded her all the e-mails! again she tried back tracking and getting another chance but how would/could i trust her when she was due to move 5o miles away to uni aswell...was never gona happen best off out of it mate (you seam to already know that anyway) its the best thing i did not giving into her and it shows..i was with her 2 n bit years in the end.....and then i met my last gf that only lasted 6 months and im still hurting now 3 months on! i have noting to hold againsed her to get me over her lol
quankanne Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 she sounds like a real head-case, only interested in seeing how high you'll jump rather than being in an honest relationship with you ... you're better off without that kind of train-wreck in your life. *insert evil thought* now, wouldn't it be amusing if you happened to forward this last barrage of emails to the guy she's with now? You know, kinda like a public service announcement warning him of what's to come with her? Just a thought
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