lamb Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 I'm 24 years old and i've never been in a "serious" relationship before, all my previous partners have either been casual or meaningless. I've been with my current partner for just over 3 months now, we're in love and i'd like to think that we're both very happy. Now for the issue... when we first got together we had a lot of sex as is the way at the start of most relationships, however that part of the relationship seems to have come to a bit of a halt. We see each other practically everyday and i stay at his most nights, it's been 2 weeks now since we last slept together and that was initiated by me, I've since tried again a couple of times but it hasn't come to anything so I always give up. Other then that he's so affectionate towards me, always holds my hand when we're out, kisses me, hugs me and spoons me in bed. So why no sex? I may well just be being ignorant but as I pointed out earlier this is my first serious relationship so it's all a bit new to me really. Any light shed on this subject would be appreciated
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 One thing to do is compare the recent inactivity to anything else going on in his life... work... school... that may have altered his routine or stress level. He's affectionate... which is a great sign... Have you, um, had the STD talk/TESTS yet??? (that could easily be a reason why a guy would seem to cool his sexual jets toward a woman with whom he is quite comfortable otherwise) (it is POSSible that he has something he's not told you about, and, um, there could be a breakout at present) I'm not suggesting that scenario is likely... but the fact that he remains affectionate toward you in other ways is a factor in your favor that reduces the chances of more obvious reasoning on his part.
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