eggy Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Long story short, fiancee left me back in August. Been NC ever since except for 2 drunk texts from me (stupid I know). And she have yet attempted to contact me. I was told that shes confused (from a third party source). 2 months ago she dropped the rest of my stuff at my grandma's since I dont live in the same town anymore. I figure this would be the last time she would stop by her place. Then I came back to visit my mom and grandma. Somehow she found out I was in town and then she "stop" by my grandma to check up on her. My grandma ask her if she knew that I am back in town and she said yes. Its pretty odd for her to check up on my grandma like that just out of the blue. I'm trying not to make any big deal out of this situation but does anyone think shes trying to "bump" into me? Everybody think its weird that shes checking up on my grandma, its not like they were really close to each other.
Am4Real Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Long story short, fiancee left me back in August. Been NC ever since except for 2 drunk texts from me (stupid I know). And she have yet attempted to contact me. I was told that shes confused (from a third party source). 2 months ago she dropped the rest of my stuff at my grandma's since I dont live in the same town anymore. I figure this would be the last time she would stop by her place. Then I came back to visit my mom and grandma. Somehow she found out I was in town and then she "stop" by my grandma to check up on her. My grandma ask her if she knew that I am back in town and she said yes. Its pretty odd for her to check up on my grandma like that just out of the blue. I'm trying not to make any big deal out of this situation but does anyone think shes trying to "bump" into me? Everybody think its weird that shes checking up on my grandma, its not like they were really close to each other. Your suspicions of her actions are probably correct, after all you know her best and if you think that’s what she is up to then it’s most likely to be. By your question you seem to be hoping that is the case, perhaps hoping she is having second thoughts. Are you? Don’t be cruel to yourself. Playing a guessing game in wondering what she is thinking or up to does nothing but put your head into the “past” and starts the hurting process all over again. I’ll bet you’re in somewhat of emotional turmoil these days. That’s okay, it’s understandable! Remember this: if she wanted to see you she would make a hard effort to contact you and let you know. If she wanted you back she would call you and tell you so and would do everything possible to have you back in her life full time and exclusively. Since she has not done either consider it pure coincidence (falling from her new found affection for your Grandmother, LOL) or a silly game of curiosity. It’s more likely curiosity since you no longer contact her since those “drunk texts” and perhaps her wanting to learn that you “don’t hate her” or some other irrelevant token of selfish sentiment. Just walk away – you’ll get the last laugh when you meet the next great one!
Author eggy Posted November 29, 2010 Author Posted November 29, 2010 Yes, I would be lying if I say that I wasn't hoping for her to have 2nd thoughts. However I am still extremely hurt just they way she went about breaking up with me. AND YES, her visiting my grandma really messed with my emotions and the holidays aren't making it easier to cope with. At this point I don't know what to think. The past few months have been emotionally draining. I just want to get over it (piece of cake right? ). I came to the conclusion that this gotta be the most painful feeling ever. I wouldn't even wish this upon my mortal enemies, if I ever have any.
Am4Real Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Yes, I would be lying if I say that I wasn't hoping for her to have 2nd thoughts. However I am still extremely hurt just they way she went about breaking up with me. AND YES, her visiting my grandma really messed with my emotions and the holidays aren't making it easier to cope with. At this point I don't know what to think. The past few months have been emotionally draining. I just want to get over it (piece of cake right? ). I came to the conclusion that this gotta be the most painful feeling ever. I wouldn't even wish this upon my mortal enemies, if I ever have any. Stop, stop, stop...you're being all negative. I want you to think of it this way for the next week: Now you really know what it is like to love someone. However, you developed this great human emotion for the wrong person. Now that you have felt it and know this emotion think how totally fantastic it will be with the right person. It truly will (if you let it).
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