TomerT Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 Hi all, Although I have dated a lot, I am in completely new for me situation right now; therefore would like to hear your advice... Currently, I am dating someone, for about 3 weeks. We are spending some time together, prepared our meals together, she even had a shower at my place once...We pretty physically close (a lot of touching, hugging, teasing, cuddling), but nothing intimate (yet...) I think the main reason for that cause we both not sure if we really want to be as a couple in the long term, also we used to be friends before, therefore not want to hurt each other if something will not work out... Anyway, recently I was invited to another date (someone I saw once before)...My question is should I tell my current female-friend (I am not sure what is our status right now ) that I am going to date..should I omit this or lie ? I suppose she may have plans that we are spending Saturday night together. What do I tell her if she asks me ? Although we both agreed that at this stage we are not in commited relationship - I pretty sure she will not like (in the least sense, will be hurt - in the worse case) if I say her the truth... What is the "right" thing to do in this situation ? How many following dates I allowed to have "in parallel" (if at all) without being "labelled" a cheater by anyone ? I consider my self a "moral" person, but on the other hand of course do not want to miss someone potentially good. Your advice very appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
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