Girl asks where we are at in the relationship. What does this mean.

[stuck with eharmony]

Hey so I've been dating this girl for a little more than a month. We text each other every day I really like her. Last night she asked me where we where at in the relationship. I wasn't exactly sure how to respond since I've never been asked the question before. So what did this mean. What was she trying to say.

[gentlewaters]

Hey so I've been dating this girl for a little more than a month. We text each other every day I really like her. Last night she asked me where we where at in the relationship. I wasn't exactly sure how to respond since I've never been asked the question before. So what did this mean. What was she trying to say.

 

I don't know, but it could be that she would like for you to ask her "Would you be my girlfriend?"

[JohnnyBlaze]

GentleWaters is probably right. Usually, "where are we" means "it's been long enough. I want some kind of commitment."

[stuck with eharmony]

thank you for the response. I was thinking the same thing that she was hinting at wanting to be my girlfriend but i wasn't sure since we had only been on 3 dates. I thought 3 dates may have been alittle early.

[zig]

It means she likes you and is wanting confirmation from you that you feel the same.

[Hopeful30]

It means "Am I your girlfriend or should I keep my options open?"

[Seamless74]

It means its time to have the exclusivity talk.. What do you think it means???

[curiousnycgirl]

It means she wants to know what you're thinking - I wouldn't assume it means she's expecting the exclusivity talk - she might, but don't assume.

 

Tell her what you told us - that you like her!