Mscchick Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 :confused:So... 1.)How do you let a guy know that you are interested in him? (A guy you just met out and about at a bar etc.) 2.) How can you tell if a guy in interested in you? (A guy you've just met by the way) 3.) How do you show interest in one guy without offending his friend who is interested in you? I posted another question with a more specific situation that I would appreciate an answer to if possible, but these are the main questions.
dispatch3d Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 hey cutie works. Ask questions about what he does, his hobbies, etc. etc.
Tressugar Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 1.)How do you let a guy know that you are interested in him? (A guy you just met out and about at a bar etc.) Strike up an interesting conversation about his job, school, places he visited and so forth. Ask him if he is interest in continuing to conversation at a later date...You don't want to come on strong, but allow the guy to show interest in you first. You don't want the risk of being rejected. 2.) How can you tell if a guy in interested in you? (A guy you've just met by the way) He will show you by talking to you, flirting, asking questions about yourself, ask for your number and asking you for a date. Men have a way of showing women that they are interested in them. Men go after women that they like. 3.) How do you show interest in one guy without offending his friend who is interested in you? Be polite to both of them. Chat with them. You would want to go for the person who is into you. Even though your interests may lie in the other person. You never know what may come of it. Hope this helps.
runner Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 :confused:So... 1.)How do you let a guy know that you are interested in him? (A guy you just met out and about at a bar etc.) 2.) How can you tell if a guy in interested in you? (A guy you've just met by the way) 3.) How do you show interest in one guy without offending his friend who is interested in you? I posted another question with a more specific situation that I would appreciate an answer to if possible, but these are the main questions. 1. engage his eyes, and smile. alternatively- you just go up to him, start talking to him, and ask him all sorts of interesting questions; and you get fairly close to him while in convo. 2. he notices you, doesn't look away, approaches you, and says hello. further- he says things that flatter you. 3. his friend doesn't even figure in your mind once 1 and 2 are in play; and you shouldn't be too concerned about him anyway, it's generally his problem if you're not paying him any attention.
dispatch3d Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 hit him playfully. smile a lot laugh at all his jokes. be friendly talk about whatever he wants to talk about restart conversations if they stop abruptly or he isn't talking. He likely just ran out of things to say. Be accepting of everything he does. Don't shoot down anything because you don't like it. Push him playfully. Wink at him. Doodle with your own hair. Doodle with his hair. Doodle with....ok i'll keep it pg haha. hug him tell him you really enjoyed seeing him call him text him you could also go watch waitresses, strippers, or other similar jobbed people talk to guys. They are the pros, I am just the victim.
Seamless74 Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Jesus Im not even a girl and I can give you better advice than this... Just ask him is he has a girlfriend...(dead giveaway only one reason on earth to ask that, very forward for a woman to say would be pretty obvious) Ask him what hes doing this weekend or later that night?
welikeincrowds Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Jesus Im not even a girl and I can give you better advice than this... Just ask him is he has a girlfriend...(dead giveaway only one reason on earth to ask that, very forward for a woman to say would be pretty obvious) Ask him what hes doing this weekend or later that night? Yeah, but, that's not flirting. That's asking someone out.
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