Confused4Now Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 No worries. I'm very good at matching up words and actions. Some brutal treatment over the decades at the hands of MW's have taught me a lot. You can laugh. I learn BTW, how could they (or you) possibly know what I want to hear? Well I would hope you wanted to hear the truth first of all. I'm just saying from my experience I was just given a story which she truly believed without any actions to back it up. So I guess you'd want to hear what she did rather than what she's going to do....right?
carhill Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 I just let people talk. It works wonderfully. BTW, here's a great thread to apply the 'hearing both parties in agreement' philosophy. Go help this deserving poster out.
siuys Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Separation means nothing and everything, depending on who it is. For me during my separation means I'm done with my M and just waiting till I can file for D. For xMM, I think his separation was a trial one tho' he didn't know it at the time. It can mean everything, or nothing depending on the person's perspective.
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