Frostie Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Have been "dating" an aussie ( I live in Europe) for about 8 months now. We started as friends, just had a connection and we were both in a (bad) marriage when we met. He is travelling a lot since his business takes him to my country for about every 10 weeks so we have been available to spend some time together. And we have always had great fun. Sex came in the picture later on and it was magical. He wrote to me that have never experienced that kind of connection with anyone. We are both now in divorce, he moved out from his wife this summer and he told me that I "saved" him. I have totally fallen head over heels for him, he said that he is crazy about me and that he cannot wait until he sees me again. I have been planning on moving to Aus, (with my profession, it should be an option) and he has invited me over to his place. We have spent some days in Europe for holiday and he told me that it was perfect. After the trip he said to me that he is not in love with me and that maybe we should just stay friends cause he is slow after divorce (which I totally kind of understand) and that he is afraid of how difficult it might be if we cannot be together. And that he do think of me but not every day. I am hurt and broken. All this time he has been planning trips and future as well with me (talking about inviting me to his family and he has already introduced me to his colleagues) etc and now he puts the breaks? I asked him if he likes me less after our holiday trip and he said no. That it could not have been better. So here I am with a broken heart, he still keeps contact with me by email, calling me about once a week and skyping..it seems to me that he cannot let me go but does not want me as his girlfriend either? So what am I to him? Just a good friend? But the messages have turned out from "babe" and "miss you" etc with "hello my friend", "always your friend".. I´ll give him time to figure this out but he is still keen on having me there next summer for visiting him but I hesitate. My heart is with him and this is really hard for me. Has he totally lost interest in me? Is this his way of telling me that he will never fall for me? All his actions has been the opposite until now, I am so sad and frustrated and confused. Shall I let him go? Cause being just a friend is not working for me! But I cannot let him go either until I visit him in his country and figure out if he still just wants to be friends? Help me pls!
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