Do We Have Anything in Common (Or Am I Just an Jerk?)

[phillyfan]

You raise some good points. She, my wife, complained recently about my choice in cologne and I changed with no problem. I should at least be able to ask her to trash the sweats or keep them in private. She offends easily on such issues, but really...

 

As for the cheating or what not. No. Never cheated. Have no plans to cheat. Thought about, yes. But honestly, if I was going to, it would have happened by now. I'm at the age where I can (usually) foresee consequences much more clearly than when I was younger. Boredom with marriage is a consequence of marriage I never envisioned as a young man. I'm dealing with it as best I can now. I believe I'm handling it better than most, but still far from perfect.

 

As for the neighbor woman you mentioned. We no longer live in the same neighborhood (or state) and I've decided it's for the better if I just let it go and move on. We've had no contact since I visited a few weeks ago.

 

I really do feel this is some kind of mid-life crisis. A mild one - I drive a hybrid not a ragtop, for now.

 

Thanks for your help.

 

Dude standards are higher for u, seein as ur an international playboy :D seriously - u want her to dress smarter? Tell her she is freakin gorgeous, and uve seen some movie or a dress in the sales (or whatever) that you think would look so sexy on her, then go crazy over it, and say u r so hot, u shud wear that stuff more....keep encouragin her, shell do it trust me.